Holla!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey guys,

I am so sorry guys, i feel so bad, I was so scared after being so long that i decided to stay away much longer..You know that type of situation when you know you are in te wrong and you start running? Well i ran for too long and now I am tired of running...I'm not sure if I am back but I have missed this place and all of you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I stalk this blog almost everyday but I've been too much of a chicken to comment because I know i have been gone for so long....I cant believe it either..It's probably because most of my blogville friends have not been blogging like they should..Hope everyone is doing fantastic..A lot has been going on with me but I'll be back with a proper update...

Cheers

Fire on the mountain but no where to run

Hello my people, guess whose back? Its meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I know i have been gone for a minute but it was all for a good reason. Graduation is around the corner and I can't afford to be consumed by blogger cuz u know if I make a post I would be here like clockwork to see if anyone has replied and since my mother has already told everyone and their mothers that I am graduating in May, we can't afford to mess up..Abi?
But not too worry I have been here every sunday evening checking for weekly updates from Solomonsydelle, Bumight, Afrobabe and last but not least Mr. and Mrs. Don Chari and some other blogs..So I am fairly up to date on whats been going on in Blogville. Even checked out the Blog Idols and I must say I am very impressed with the categories.
So Im sure you guys are wondering what caused me to come back to Blogville? There is FIRE on the mountain ooo and i am forced to stay and quench it instead of running for cover. Maybe I should have sent this to Solomonsydelle but let's see what happens. So back to my story, your girl is involved in a 'Love Triangle" as my best friend put it and I have no idea what to do because I feel like whatever happens, someone is gonna get hurt and that person would most likely be me. I wont necessarilu call it a love triangle but anyways here is my dilemma.
I met this guy Alex, a couple of yrs ago and at the time, I was seeing someone else so we just stayed friends and never crossed that line. It has always been obvious that we were attracted to each other and basically I just kept waiting on him to make a move but homeboy never did, he just made it known that he liked me and his reputation aint exactly perfect. A month ago, we got into an argument over the phone and I decided that it was time to late that whole relationship go instead of dragging it along any further. I was sure it was not going to end in a relationship that I wanted..So that was that.
Fast forward to two weeks later, I went to visit my best friend and her boyfriend. She had been telling me about this guy she wanted to hook me up with for a while but I never acted on it because I am not exactly a fan of the whole hooking up process. I like to meet people on my own as to avoid any unecessary complications. Anyway the first night I was there the guy came over and he seemed like a cool person. His name was Jide and we hit it off right away. He seemes to have his life in order. Found out that Jide and my bestfriend's boyfriend are best friends. That immediately put up a red flag cuz all I could think about was that if we ever got together it would be too close for comfort. Just imagine bestfriends dating bestfriends. That means our business would be their business and vice versa. That kind of put me off at first but then after a while it didn't seem like such a bad idea. So the whole time I was there we hung out and started getting to know each other better. On one of our hanging out events (lol), we ran into one of Alex's friend and come to find out that Alex and Jide know each other and have mutual friends in common. I really didn't care though because I had already made up my mind that Alex was out of the picture. Anyways before the end of my visit, i made out with Jide once. Everything should be good right? WRONG
So a couple of days later I get a phonecall from Alex letting me know that he heard about me and Jide and he doesn't approve it and blah blah blah and I really wasn't trying to hear whatever he had to say. He apologized for whatever he might have done in the past and he cares and blah blah. And he feels bad and he wants us to be serious and all I could do was tell him I was done with him. At this point I wa so mad because I felt like it had to take someone else to step in to the picture before he stepped up. I was furious. So i got home one day and guess who was sitting at my door? Alex..YeS Mr. man flew in to my state to stalk me. I thought things like that only happened in the movie theaters and not in real life but lo and behold it happened in my life. So at this point, we were forced to talk. Alex asked that I stop seeing others and he never really stepped up in the past because i usually intimidated him and he wanted to make sure that he was ready before he stepped up because he didnt want to ruin the friendship we had. Basically he wants us to be in a relationship and this is where my problem lies. I cannot even lie because I fell for it, call me a fool but yes, i fell for it. All the emotions i tried to hide came rushing out and I wont even lie, I would love to be with him. Unfortunately, Jide is also in the picture and I already kissed him. Although, Jide has never came out ans said anyhing about liking me or anything, my best friend's man told me that Jide is trying to be serious and right now he is just trying to get a feel for who I am. And my bestfriend and her man are advising me to go with Jide because that's who they are rooting for. Also found out that Alex already called Jide and told him to back-off but Jide has not told me about it so I don't know how true it is. I guess it is just complicated because all parties know each other and that is actually the biggest problem.
I feel like if I go with Alex, Jide would resent me even though I hope we can stay friends cuz he is actually a good guy and I know that i would be seeing more of him as long as my friend and her boyfriend stay together which would only complicate issues. Abd it doesn't help that my bestfriend is rooting for Jide and keeps hinting that she would be mad at me if I went with Alex and not Jide. It might also change the relationship with me nd my friend because she feels somewhat responsible since she tried to hook us up and she also doesn't like Alex cuz of our past history. I also don't know how to go abiut telling Jide that Alexn is back in the picture because I dont want him to feel like I led him on but at the same time dont wanna be too forward since Jide hasn't said what his intentions are.
So people, I need your advice and please make it good and anounce to everyone to come offer opinions cuz i need it all.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!!

Happy Birthday To me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes guys, I am a year older today and I am loving it...

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Happy New Year Blogville!!!!

Hope you guys had a great new year like I did...This year looks promising already,,So much is going on with me this year and I cant wait...I decided to do things a lil different this year and not write down any resolutions because personally they never work for me, by the end of January, the resolutions are no where to be found. So, this year, Im just going to live it better, have more fun, travel more and try something new each month which can be as simple as going to a new restaurant. Top on my list for that wil probably skydiving. For the past month, I have been feeling like superwoman and I think its time to try out my flying skills..Ill probably do that for my bday coming up in a week, thats if I don chicken out. Anyways, for all those that went to Las gidi this past christmas, I am so hating on all of you, i wish i could have gone as well because it seems that everyone and their mama was in naija this xmas. Anyways, hopefully i get to go next december considering one of my friends is getting married and I am supposed to be her bridesmaid. Anyway guys, wish you all a prosperous new year and may this be the happiest year of all. Go out there and chase your dreams and live a fulfilling life. God Bless.

Semester Over!!!!

Y'all cant even understand how excited I am right now. The semester officially ended for me at 9:10pm tonight..Im oh so excited..This has been the craziest semester of my entire life. Crazy times mehn..Will be back later for a proper blog..Im out..Ready for a 12 hr round of non-stop sleep..The last time i slept for 6 hrs straight was back in August..So right now, Im armed with my Tylenol PM and ready to do some serious damage..Man Down..Code 10..lmao

How Great Is Our God

Hello guys,
How are you all doing? Hope everything has been going all god. Well, I can't complain because God has been awesome. Can't believe that the semester is almost over, I don't know how i got this far into the semester except that it was just by the grace of God. He has been ever so faithful even in my unfaithfuness and I cannot thank him enough. I think it just hit me that we only have a few weeks left in the year and we would be starting a new year. I love new years because it just brings new hope. You know that feeling you get when you start a new year and you have all these prophecies and hope to liveby. I just love that.
So what is my reason for this post? I got into blogging around this time last year and I would just lurk around reading people's posts and entries and it just made me so excited to see the bond and how people truly cared (or at least they acted like they did). Few weeks after, i got introduced to the blog world, around this time last year, I got into a very horrible accident. It was really bad and everytime I look at the pics i get teary eyed all over. This was an accident that should have ended my life by all accounts. My car was totalled and it even caught on fire. I have always been curious to find out how the airbags pop out and what they really looked like and let's just say I did..And to top it off, I walked out of that car without a scratch or an ache..Scariest moment of my whole life. My life really flashed before my eyes. But God chose to spare my life and I will always be grateful and Love him. Im just so happy that I am still alive and have made tremenduous progress. I went to church today and the song "How Great is our God, sing with me..How great, how great is our God" has stuck with me and I love it. Anyway Guys, i've got an exam to study for. Hope you have an awesome weekend..Be back soon

Barack Obama is the Next President of the United States of America!!!!

I am in a state of shock right now....I can't believe I amn so damn emotional rigth now..
I mean, I kind of knew all along that he was going to win the presidency but it just hit me right now. The magnitude of this election is just beyond belief. I can actually sit down 60 years from now with my grandkids and tell them about this. I just thank God for this because this election is not only affecting the United Stated but also the world. People needed something to believe in and we got just that. I am too excited right now. Obama not only won the presidency but the democrats also won the House of Reps and Senate. How crazy is that?????Unreal. Just hope he doesnt get killed and people need to understand that just because he won doesnt mean the economy is gonna change overnight. It took 20 years to do the damage and it going to take longer to get it fixed. He will just be setting the foundation in the right direction. I just heard his speech and I am so moved by it. We made history tonight. Now i really believe that people have no excuse to not strive for greatness. We were all kind of looking for someone to set the trend and now that we got it, i just feel like I am unstoppable. I just want to do more and be more involved and just better myself overall. I mean i always knew that I would leave to see an African-American president but i never imagined that I would see it so soon. For the first time in my adult life, I am proud to be an American. Anyway i am so excited right now and cant really get my thoughts together but i will be back to update. God Bless America!!!!!

Back Like I Never Left

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Before you say it.....I know I have been gone for too long and I apologize for that..E ma binu...Lets just thank God the month is over cuz its been a long hectic one. But most importantly I am back..Just been busy with school, work and applying to schools so its been crazy..I don;t even know where to begin or what to write but I am sure i have stories for days to share. Can you believe I had to schedule this post into my planner? Yes, its that crazy..but i have been lurking around a couple of blogs and i tired to keep up with some blogs.
Maybe its just me but blogville has slowly but surely been dying down for me, i get on here and I am not even sure if i want to share somethings but maube thats because a lot of my blogvill eppl are no longer on blogville or they just blog sporadically but mehn this place needs to be revived.
Anyway right now my focus is on this election that is coming up in about 4 days. Seriously though, I am ready for this saga to be over. Watching McCain and Obama bicker back and forth everyday is starting to annoy me. They just keep going back and forth like littel kids and personally I would be so happy when its over at least I wont have to hear their garbage on a daily anymore. Personally, I am still trying to figure out why McCain decided to punish himself by running for President. As in the man is about 70 yrs old, you have all the money you can possibly want (He doesnt even know how many houses he has), so why would you want to run for public office as such an old age when u should be retired, sitting on your porch and playing with your grandkids or just reading a damn book.
I know personally that if i was eighty years old, I would want to be traveling the world with my hubbie and visiting my grandkids. But anyway to each his own.
Even though Obama has been doing good in the polls for a while now, I am still scared that they might try to pull some stunts on Tuesday and declare McCain the winner and after all, the electoral college decides who wins, so that still has me a little paranoid. We shall see what happens.
So anyways as per tonight is halloween and everyone is trick or treating, I wont be participating in that action cuz i dont really do halloween. My parents never encouraged it when I was younger and now that I am older I dont really care for it. I think i might take my ass to happy hour cuz i need a drink or two. and i need to sleep. Dont remember the last time i slept for more than 5 hours.
I cant wait to finish school and have a career so i can live the life of most of these people i fantasize about on facebook that seem to have it all ..Just partying, hanging out with friends after work and living la vida loca...not worrying abt school or exams and all that ish. Anyway its all over in 4 wks..Hooray..
I gotta come back and tell y'all abt my new boo..Ive been running away from it (or should i say him) for like 3 yrs now but its time to man up...lol. Anyway gotta go back to writing this paper. See y'all later..Have a good one.

Economic Crisis and foolish men

Hey guys,
How are you guys doing? Hope everyone is having a better week than I am. This week has already started out crazy and personally, i just can't wait for Dcember- this semester is messing with my life-literarily..I feel like I'm losing my damn mind.
Woke up yesterday turned on the news and i just got so sad. It kills me to watch the economy do so poorly. All the giant financial firms filing for bankruptcy..its just so SAD. yesterday over 25,000 people lost their job with Lehman Brothers..i just cant help but think that some of these people have families that are depending on them for stability. How do you wake up one morning and just lose everything. Just hope that everybody has some form of stability during this hard times. Be smart with your money and have some kind of savings because at this rate we are going, anything can happen.
School has been keeping me very busy and i am just praying to God for strength and divine favor.
So i got this message on facebook that just had me dying. This random naija guy sent me a message and its just the funniest.
Hello, I know that u are a caliber, nice, good, mature, with a full integrity, that some can move closer to. Even though I don’t know anything about u. I wish one day I will see u and we be a helper for ourselves. I am Bamidele, from Nigeria. pls I will like to know more about u and ur details. Thanks Bamidele.
This fool gave me all his cell phone numbers and email address and he wanted mine.He sent me like 5 different messages so i finally responded. Mind you this guy looks like he could be my uncle with kids. Anyways, here's my response: dont have a phone live on the streetz of america alone.........such is life but thanks to a friend that is making me use her computer now.......hmmmmmmm such is life
So you think this idiot got the clue right? NO
So he sent me another message today saying: Ok, there's no problem, we can countact ourselves through facebook. but i can see it in ur profile that u are a manager of ur company. Have u married?or u are still alone. pls reply
Like can this guy seriously be serious? Which kain level of fuckery is this? Why are some people so damn desperate. Im not even gonna bother replying him because he will get cursed out and i aint going down that road for some asshole. But anyways that's it for today. Have a good week guys.

Nigerian Clown

It's the first of the month!!!!!I am so happy this year is almost over even though i have so much to accomplish before 2008 rolls out. I was happy to be doing nothing on a school day cuz it was labor day. I love holidays no matter how short they are. Anyways, people never seem to amaze me. So I'm on my computer chatting up with my boo and someone IMed (If that's a word) from a screenname that i didnt recognize. So im trying to figure out who this clown is, and i realize that he was a complete stranger, so i told him i didnt want to chat cuz i really wasnt interested in making any new friends. And the clown was trying to make me look stupid because i didnt want to talk to him. So i did what i do best, I blocked him and the idiot went and made up another screenname just to bother my life. He had the nerve to tell me that i was being childish and immature because he was trying to get to know me and i wasn't responding. Like seriously, since when did it become by force to make new friends or talk to somebody? And why do i have to be chuldish and immature. He was really trying to figure out where i live, like did he really think i was stupid enuff to give up that information or any other information. Im still trying ot figure out how he found me because he claims he saw my pic and my screeenname on facebook but my screeename isn't on facebook and my accoun is private. You cant find me in a search unless i add you. And if you not my friend you definitely cant see my profile or my pic eveb in my network. It just pisses me off when some of these naija chewing gum boyz come off too strong and feel like you are obligated to respond to their garbage. I didn't know it was by force to talk to someone cuz he even tried to tell me that it was a free country and a free world which means that he could contact anyone he wanted. Has anyone ever heard such foolishness? I had to block him again and i hope the idiot doesn't try to contact me again cuz i got some choice words for him. I tried to be as nice as possible but the second time around will not be so good.
Anyways, apart from that clown, today was quite uneventful. I couldn't go to the bbq i was planning on attending cuz yours truly has a cold and a fever. Like seriously, who has a cold in 88 degree weather? Me, apparently. So yea, i had to stay home and catch up on my shows. i hope i feel better soon cuz i cant even afford to be sick right now. Got too much on my plate. When school is over, then all the viruses can make an appearance but for right now, they aren't welcome.
I hope you guys are enjoying your week, Have a wonderfuk week guys...

Holiday is Over!!!!!!

So the long awaited summer is finally over!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *tear tear*

Hey guys, long time no speak....I know i have been really bad with keeping up with my blog this summer..Been too busy planning the rest of my life. I cant believe its almost time to get back to the books and eventually wearing layers and layers of winter clothes. I'm kinda sad but the thought that i will be graduating May 2009 is what is keeping me going and i just want to get it over and done with..

I just thank God for his amazing grace and mercy upon my life especially this sumer, he has proven that he is really all that i need to survive. Even though nothing i planned went how i hoped it would, this is the best summer i have ever had and i owe it all to God. Despite my unfaithfulness, he has remained faithful and i cannot shout enough...I hope his grace continually remains in my life and i will continue to try my best not to abuse that grace.



I missed you guys on blogville!!!!! All you faithful bloggers, i have so much respect for you mehn because keeping up with your blog aint easy....ITS HARDWORK!!!!!

Sometimes, i browse thru your blogs, Thanks to whoever invented that fave blog thingy that keeps up with updates from your fave bloggers, without it, i would have been completely lost on blogville..

The blogville family has grown tremeduously, i see so many new blog names that i dont recognize..I guess that's a good thing.

One major thing, that has kept me away from blogging are my vacations. Got a chance to go London, Italy, Miami and a whole bunch of other places and while I'm away, the last thing i want to do is blog. I feel totally refreshed from these trips and despite the fact that i wasnt working a paying job this summer, God was still able to provide my needs by sending wonderful people my way to help me out. I never lacked and I never had to beg and I dont owe anyone..That's a testimony right there...GOD IS AWESOME!!!!!!

So now that school is about to start, i need to make some readjustments as a blogger because i feel that i have been MIA for too long and i am starting to loose the connection i once had with some of my fave bloggers. I know i am going to be crazy busy this semester taking 21 credits and 2 internships but i am a firm believer in doing whatever i pt my mind to. So, i am going to try to blog at least once every other week and make my blog rounds at least once a week and comment on your blogs. Commenting has been a big problem for me lately and i dunno why. I visit your blogs but i find it so hard to comment on the post but i am breaking that cycle from this moment...Even if i just type hi, at least i commented and hopefully it shows that i care about your blog...And that includes replying when you comment on my posts...Trust me, i read them all even though i am too laxy to comment back...I really have to get rid of this spirit of laziness, its eating me alive.



So since this is my last yr of undergrad, i plan on making the best of it. I am hitting up every HBCU homecoming ( I wish!!!but i plan on hitting up a few). And pls dont get me started on spring break but the most important is getting into grad school so guys, pls say a lil prayer for me..abeg.

So i hope all you fellow students out there are getting ready to go back to school (unlike me) and i wish you all a splendid semester.



P.S. Chari and Buttercuo, what happened to ur blog, I cant access it.

Somebody hook me up with wedding webbie's...I need a fix..lol..s.eriously though

Weekend thoughts

Hey guys what it do? lol..that didnt even sound right coming from me
Hope u guys had a wonderful week..as for me..it was same old same old..But hey, I cant complain..gotta give thanks to God regardless
So yes its finally Friday and I'm sure you guys are excited and ready for whatever the weekend has to offer..
I'm looking forward to seeing Dark Knight tonite (its got a nice ring to it)...unfortunately, i cant seem to entice anyone to go with me..But who cares, i think i might go by myself cuz i really want to see it..I remember when i used to think that the idea of going to the movies or anywhere else by urself was just absolutely absurd...It screamed loner!!!!! But lately, i actually enjoy the time i spend alone..Im so happy by myself and i love it...Being by myself makes me incredibly happy ..i know i sound like a loser but who cares...The last couple pf trips have help me reaffirm this concept....when im around too many ppl, after a while, im just ready to go home and crawl in my bed....I have also learnt a lot about myself..I guess, im going through a period of self discovery..late bloomer, i know
Picked up a couple of hobbies along the way..i tell ya, the Internet is wonderful..u can find absolutely anything on there. My laptop is like my best friend..picked up cooking and lets just say i have had a couple of hit and miss..Im not saying i cant cook oo...b4 u guys jump to conclusion..i've just been trying a couple of new things and i love it....

I have been snooping around the Internet and also based on the conversations that i have had with people recently, i have come to the conclusion that all you Naija guys do not appreciate your fellow Naija women..Yes i said it and you know it's true..
All i keep hearing is Naija girls wear weave and blah blah...Honestly, i'm a firm believer in "if you don't got it, you don't need it" but hey different strokes for different folks.. The closest i ever come to a weave is braids and that's it...But anywayz, i actually like when ppl wear weaves as long as its done right..All these women on tv..e.g Beyonce and co, wear weaves, so y cant my fellow naija sistas get away with it??? Not everyone is born with long hair and personally, I like the versatility it provides..U guys always talkin about u cant run ur fingers thru her weave..yes u can just make sure u dont go to deep...Even the white girls that you are all talkin about, an increasing number of white girls too are startin to rock weaves so dont put it on just naija girls..

Some other gorilla looking boy, was telling me that all naija girls are bad in bed..and i wasnt surprised cuz it wasn't the first time i heard that crap..first of all i think, its an individual thing bot a naija girl thing..second of all, i believe u guys dont know what u are doing either so dont blame it on us...Naija gurls have truly suffered i tell ya...If u display freakish tendencies, they label you a whore or non-wifey material..If u try to act like u r wifey material..they still complain...Una need to make up ur mind and figure it out...
So I'm expecting you guys to come in here and defend urself because Im seriously reconsidering u guys...
Anyway, I'm currently watching Run's House and i absolutely love Russy..i wish i had a little brother like him, he would be so spoiled..The boy is too cute..everything he does is cute to me....

Can you guys believe summer is over, school starts again in about 6 weeks..This is weird but i'm so ready to go back to school. Being in school taught me to manage my time and be so disciplined. Just staying home all day has totally made me a slacker..Been tryin to study for Grad school exams and lets just say it hasn't been going good at all..No motivation...that's extra bad considering the fact that in this day, having a bachelor's degree is like having a high school diploma...crappy jobs with crappy pay..that will not be my portion in Jesus Name..times have truly changed.....

Anyways, I gotta get back to watching my show...be back in a couple of hours to add more stuff
P.S. have a spectacular weekend guys

Second Half of the Year

Hey Blogville,
How ya doing on this lovely Monday? Hope everyone's week started out great. This post is long overdue but hey procastination is a bi**ch. Cant seem to sit down and actually start typing. Time is flying by like its on steroids or something. Can you believe its the second half of the onth already? Befoe you know it, the year will be over and 2009 will be here.
This past couple of weeks has opened my eyes to a lot of different issues that is going on...Something def aint right. People are losing their jobs, the economy has gone from bad to worse..they even talkin about another great depression..can you believe that mess? i hope things turn out well soon..ppl are getting divorced all over the place..I know of 2 ppl that got married in 2006 that are already divorced and another marriage is on the rocks....It's just sad hearing stories like that cuz it makes me second guess the whole marriage thing. Anyway God is in control and i hope they are able to work out their differences behind closed doors. I did my blog rounds yesterday and lets just say hmmmm..interesting...Speaking of blog rounds..what happened to DL's blog..If you are reading this missy, add me bak to ur list cuz i cant seem to view your blog..
I was gonna blog about something else but i kinda forgot...hope i remember soon.dats what happens when you dont blog immediately you get the idea...
ANyway, i hope you guys have a wonderful second half of the year...be back lata

P.S. I just saw the video for 9ice's song "street credibility" and all i can say is wow..Totally blew me away. The man is so talented and the video is hot. He is definitely gonna be great..Naija is officially on the map...Watch out guys..we got some great talents outta naija

Monday Blues

Hello blogville,
Hope u guys had a wonderful weekend...still waiting to read about them..Anyway, I am slowly recovering from my sleeping sickness...but i cant even front though..being able to sleep like that was surely good...Was home all day and extremely bored and i decided to take Naija Finegirl's advice and read Mr. Fineboy's blog and can i say she was right..Reading his old blogs surely did the trick for me. Thank goodness i was home alone cuz someone would have thought i was loosing it for real..Don't remember the last time i laughed so hard..he is a true story teller...I wish my life was as interesting as his...So if you are feeling a little down, just go over to his blog and read from the beginning..You will be feeling a bit better by the time you are done.
So i went away last week for a couple of days. It was kinda like a reunion seeing my friends that i had not seen since the last event and so on. Too much socializing and lack of sleep going on..
So i saw a friend there, Sope. Sope happens to be one of my close friends, Dapo's roommate. Before me and Dapo became really close, he used to like me but we decided that we would be better of as friends due to different issues. Sope on the other hand is very aware that his roommate likes me and still thinks there is something going on between us but yet his dumbass still tried to talk to me. I Thought that was very disrespectful and two tiiming on his part but hey, some guys are flat out foolish..I got too much respect for myself to go down that road with him especially since i know everything there is to know about him and his history aint exactly great. Ready to chase after everything that got a vajayjay. He kept following me around trying to get me to kiss him...i think he is partially responsible for me being sick cuz i am repulsed by him. Putting everything aside, why would you try to go after a girl that one of your homeboy's is interested in? Two timing at its finest... He did a great job of pissing me off but i cant be bothered to continue blogging about his ass.

And then there was Koye, blogged abt him a couple of times in the past, i was ezpeting sparks to fly everywhere like it was 4th of july or something but when i saw him, there was nothing, I was actually mad that he was there..Like why did you show up..And i giess he felt the same way cuz we were excited for like 2 seconds and the rest of the time there, we stayed out of each others paths. He mostly stayed away from me..I guess cuz there were other girls there that were feeding his ego...But ever since Ive been back, homeboy has been blowing up my phone like his life depended on it. Im oh so confused...as in, why are you calling me? last time i checked, i wasnt owing anyone money..maybe the credit card company but he doesn't work for them...


But all in all, I had a great time and i miss my girls..wish we can all go on vacation together to the bahams or something sipping on Strawberry Daiquiris and checking out the sexy island boys...

Quick question guys, Do you think its is fair to hold pastors children to a higher standard than other ppl..i.e. in terms of drinking, sex, clubbing, dating and other things that ppl judge?

I'm off to go continue reading Mr. Fineboy's blog...Have a great week guys

Sleeping Sickness

Hi Blogville,
How una dey? I have missed you guys so much...dont worry though, im gonna make my blog rounds after this post..Your girl is a little sick..I guess its cuz I've been very stressed out and my body is finally shutting down on me...I dont remember the last time I slept this much..Since yesterday, I could bbarely keep my eyes open for more than hour..which is very wierd cuz i dont sleep. When the rest of the works is sleeping, my ass is up like its daytime or something..If people got paid for staying up, I should have been a billionaire by now..

This past couple of days have been very very interesting..all kind of wierd things happened to me mehn.. im feeling sleepy again..would be back lata

Friday the 13th

Mo Gbona Fele Bi Amala to jina gan gan..dont hate me cuz im hotter than you!!!!!!
And i mean that literally, Its hot as hell i n this place..not that i know or ever want to know how hot hell is...And if its as hot as it is now, then i definitely need to straighten up my act cuz i definitely dont want to end up there..

For real, for real, I love my blog family..U guys are ridiculously awesome!!!!!FANTABULOUS!!!
Blogging has definitely been a source of therapy for me...a free one at that cuz u know nothing beats free anyday...Instead of going to sit on some lady with glasses couch and pay like $200 per session..i just come here and in a couple of hours you guys have me feeling like a million bucks....Im personally mailing out hugs and kisses to you guys....Oya go and check your mail box and start picking them up....Why are you still sittinng there? I said go get your personalized hugs and kisses from your mailbox...U guys are really awesome, i swear!!!!
And to all the new bloggers on the block, i give you my warmest welcome...Welcome into A WONDERFUL AND LOVING FAMILY..Hope blogville is everything you want it to be and it serves the purpose for which you created it...Being doing my rounds and some of yu got some nice stuff

I don't know why but I'm feeling extra good today...Im just bubbling inside like someone just handed me a blank check....Say Amen jor!!! Maybe is because i just realized that Im not doing as bad as I thought i was. Therea are some ridiculous people in this world, i tell ya...PLAIN OLD RIDICULOUS!!!!! Will blog about it in a few minutes....

Can someone please explain to me why gas prices are so damn high?????And since when did food get so expensive?? I tire for this country oo..Dey no go kill erson sha!!! I went to fill up my tankk yesterday and i damn near caught a heart attack..As in, i'm staring at the pump, and the money keeps going up and up while the gas keeps pumping..Im like when will this stupid thing stop...When it stopped, my total was $68.73..CHINEKE ME!!!! I don die.....I remember when i used to fill up my tank for $20 and now $20 can't even buy me a quarter tank....I paid that much for gas when i still had a quarter in my tank...It is high time i invest in a bicycle...WHere can i get a bicycle my people?????
Food is another no go area...the two things you cannot cut back on are so expensive..I'm going back to my garri soaking days..
Speaking of soaking garri, I found the razzest thing on facebook..HOW TO SOAK GARRI..If there is one video you watch today, let it be this one...JOBLESSNESS AT ITS FINEST!!!!Make sure you watch it

So my friend sent me this post and i almost died laughing..some people are crazy sha..Who owns the breast? the husband or the child? hahahahahaha..let's just say joblessness is a disease and should be avoided at all cost...

For all you yoruba movie lovers out there, please watch German Machine..ise kuse at its best..Some ppl are just plain ol' nasty..NASTY I TELL YA....but it was funny..so if u aint doing much this weekend, go on youtube and watch it, its nuttin like you have ever seen..at least it was a first for me.

On a lighter note....my east coast homies, the CELTICS are bringing it home this year...All you lakers fans out there...sorry but your boy Kobe isn't bringing it home this year.

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND GUYS!!!!WHATEVER YOU DO, HAVE FUN DOING IT AND I'LL BE BACK TO READ ABOUT IT...*****HUGS & KISSES*****

Weekend from HELL!!!!!

To say that I am pissed off is an understatement
I dont remember the last time i was this mad...hell, dont even think I've been this mad this year
Ok i know im not the most patient and tolerating person in the world but hey it is who I am, so bite me jor..Im allowed to have flaws and pet peeves...
At my age, i can't be trying to change who I am to accommodate one buffoon that just fell off a tree...Don't get me wrong, I am striving to be a better me but sometimes I can't help myself when people knowingly get on my nerves...U definitely gonna get a reaction out of me and probably a beat down....

So what and who is responsible for my rage?
So anyway I was totally expecting this weekend to be fun-filled and never ending but Im sure glad its over..
One of my mom's friends daughter decided to that she wanted to come down and spend the weekend with us and I was actually looking forward to it.
I had the whole weekend planned out and everything, places to go, ppl to see and the whole nine
Friday started out fine until I had to take my brother to the store (got a couple of names for his ass but i'll refrain myself). This lil booger had me driving for close to an hour looking for target and when we got there, he was wasting my time looking for some gift for one of the stupid girls he talks to. So that already ticked me off because one of the few things i hate most in my life is people wasting my time. I absolutely hate it...When i tell you to be somewhere at 9am, I expect ur ass to be there at 8:55 otherwise u are so late.. That's just me ..everyone is different so spare me...Don't like waiting on ppl when i could have been doing something more important with my life

Anyway back to the point, this girl comes to visit and just does everything that i hate it to completely piss me off.
First of all, she is a yr older than me and i guess she felt that it was a license to boss me around and send me on little errands, but this chica was so wrong cuz i take orders from no one..Who cares if you are a yr older, you can go jump off a bridge for all i care. I wonder why some people are so keen on this stupid age thing. You can be as old as you want to be technically cuz you dont have a choice but that is not a guarantee that you are wiser or smarter than I am..NO WAY JOSE!!!
When you say someone is lazy, she def fits the description. Didnt lift a finger the whole weekend which i really didnt mind at first cuz im used to cleaning up after people anyways but when you start going into my personal stuff and taking my stuff without asking, then you have crossed the line and it is time to whoop your ass like your mama should have done when your ass was still a child. She had random ppl coming in and out of our house without even letting us know that she was inviting her friends over. I mean seriously, you dont leave here, so you gotta ask before bringing ppl over. Hell, i still let my parents know im bringing people over before they come even though i know they wouldn't mind. Pschewwwwww..its all about respecting others which clearly my friend here knows nothing about..
Name that line and she crossed it...from putting her hand in my food to trying to make me vacate my own bed(when we have an empty guest room). The chick even went as afar as taking my car out without my permission...Crossed all the damn boundaries I tell ya.
My mom kept giving me some flimzy excuse that she is only a guest here and would be leaving soon, so to try and accommodate her but all that is bull crap to me...Like seriously, i dont care how close we are and shit but you dont come in my house and turn my shit around and try to give me advice on how shit should be run...Like you dont see me coming in your house and telling you how to run your shit...Mehn, some ppl need to be kicked off this earth. To make matters worse, i had an interview this afternoon that she was very well aware of but she decided to take the car and head out to the mall while i missed my interview. That was what made me go crazy..I'm like this gotta be some kind of a joke but the joke was clearly on me
Im just so heated and I know this sounds very mean and all, but i really cant wait to see her leave.Last night here Thank God.Was having a rather nice and boring summer before this chick showed but now, im just ready to even leave...Damn....

I need to calm down and relax...Woosah...Woosah..Woosah...shit..this isn't working..(excuse my french)..Maybe i need to just go to sleep and hope that tomorrow is a better day since she would be gone by then.
Anyways, Im off to bed to think of some plan on what to do cuz somebody has got to pay for all these built up anger inside me...ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH...I hate feeling this way, but like all other things, this too shall pass.

Wus Up People

Hey Guys, itsa been a mighty long time.Hope u guys didnt miss me too much
I've just been having a very blah moment lately....but hey, ya gurl is back like I never left
Its been a couple of times where i just sat in front of my computer but the motivation to actually start typing the words and thoughts in my head just wasn;t there.
Dont worry though, I've been keeping up wih all your posts and stuff...I wish they had some kinda technology that typed what you were thinking about..

So anyway sha, school is out for summer YAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYY (doing some kinda dance)The GPA is looking great and no summer school for me Thank God. Been taking summer classes since i go into school.All i have to do is take 7 more classes and your gurl will be a college graduate. I cant wait to head off to grad school and move on with the rest of my life. People keep telling me that once im done with school Im gonna want to go back..I doubt that will be the case with me as long as i have a job and i'm getting paid.i will be good to go..This whole school sheningans is not for me.

So yea, Im spending my summer over in Houston and let's just say it hasn't started out too good. It's hella hot down here..As in we are having 94 degree weather in May. I would hate to see what July would feel like. I have come to the conclusion that being hot brings out the worst in me. I've been so cranky and just snapping at everyone and i have no motivation of leaving the air-conditioned house for the humid air. Everytime i step out, that heat wave just sends some kind of paralysing effect. I just get so tired .I dont know how they do it.

So since, im not taking any summer classes, I decided to get a job but it has not been easy. Everywhere i have applied to, they keep talking about I need experience or they gave the job to someone with more experience and Im like Motherf****rs (excuse my french) how the hell am i supposed to have experience when you wont give me a job. Like am i supposed to give my self-experience? I hope i get a job soon cuz that will just ruin my summer

What the hell is going on with this stupid economy? Spending $65 on gas is absolutely ridiculous considering the fact that i had a quarter tank in my car. Gas is no joke mehn. That's part of the reasons why i don't go out as much. Gas is just one of those things that you can't cut back on, you just gotta get it. I bought a gallon of milk for $4 today at Walmart and mehn, i was very tempted to just completely eliminate milk from my diet...Kilode? You can't even afford to buy food these days...Everuthing is just so expensive and meanwhile minimum wage is not going up and ppl cant get jobs. Cant wait for that stupendous buffoon of a president to leave office..That bastard just ran us down...We need some serious divine intervention in this country.

Anyways, on to more positive sturves..Can u believe it's june already? I remember it like itwas yesterday when we entered into a new year and everything was just looking fantabulous..Now we are almost half way through the year and before you know it, we will be singing HAPPY NEW YEAR again..Anyway, i went to church today and the pastor was talking about God restoring our lives and eliminating all forms of delay. So I am tapping into that blessing and believing God for some restorations in my life (would be back to blog about it). God is good sha..I had fun today at church..Twas a wonderful service.

So after church today, me and my friend were jejely and gbadunly (lol..new slang i heard) walking to our car whe this random lady that i have never seen before stopped us..She was like you girls are so pretty and look like responsible wifey materials. She was like u girls dont become akatas oo and that she has 3 responsible sons- age 30, 25 and 22. The woman gave us her number telling us to call her and blah blah blah..I was just laughing cuz i have never experienced such craziness before..I guess you learn something new everyday..If she really expects us to call her then she would be waiting for ever..I mean damn, i know i want a boo and all but i sure aint that desperate. Wonders will never end sha...

So lately, I realized that there have been a lot of new relationships on facebook..I;m like that's a first sign that summer is here. Everyone wants to be hooked up for the summer. Everyone wants to be seen and show off their boos..By the time September rolls around again, they would have broken up...

Blogville has been looking rather dry lately..Everyone is disappearing..i wonder what kinda epidemic is going on around here...DL and Risquediva where are you guys ooooooo??
To all of u that checked up on me during my mini-vacation, thanks a lot..Love u guys and missed you loads..

Hope this year brings you nothing but pure happiness...Ciao

I was tagged by Soupasexy
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I hate doing these things but imma do one anyways..I am very wierd but these are some of my quirks:

1. I think i have insomnia, I find it very difficult to sleep for more than 5 hrs at at a time. I have to be sick or something for me to fall asleep for a prolonged period. And no matter what time i go to sleep, i cant sleep past 9am. Even if i was partying the night before and came home at 7am, i still wake up at 9ish. I have to get up, do some things before i can go back to sleep again...I told u i was weird. When I'm in public places like the mall or other events where i know that i am guaranteed to be bothered by stupid guys, i pretend to be on the phone. I just can't be bothered to be engaged in stupid conversations. Or sometimes, when im around someone and i need an excuse, I tend to play with my phone nd set it to ring like 2 mins later so that it seems that someone just called.


2. When I'm by myself, i tend to talk to myself. I could hold a whole conversation by myself. Dont need anyone around. Ive been doing that since i was little and now i just cant help myself.

3. I love SHOES!!!!! People tell me i have a disease but i actually love my disease. I could go shopping and only buy shoes and i would be completely satisfied with no regrets. I am a strong believer that with the right shoes you can rock any outfit. I have gotten away with wearing jeans and a t-shirt to parties and i was able to pull it off with the right pair of shoes and yes, i always get compliments. I have a whole bunch of shoes but i cant tell you guys how much i have..its simply crazy how much shoes i have. I have a closet full of shoes. I am so bad to the point that even with guys, i tend to look at their shoes and judge them by it. No use being so cute when you cant dress..Sorry, i cant help it.

4. I am some what of a neat freak. You being a guy is not an excuse to be a slob. I cant stand people who are untidy. Everything has to be in place. No dirty dishes or clothes on the floor. The whole nine. I even wash my bathtub every morning before i get in even though i'm the only one that uses it. I just cant help myself. I do my laundry like twice a week. The sight of an overflowing laundry basket is not a good look...

5.I am such a water head. i can cry at the drop of a hat. when im watching a movie, i cry. when i hear sad situations, i cry. when i misplace something i cry. i cry when im lonely. I can be happy one minute and the next minute im crying. Sometimes, I dont even know why am crying. In most case, i wont stop crying until someone acknowledges me and gives me some attention.

6. When i love, I love really hard. I love meeting new people and making friends. I tend to sacrifice a lot for my friends but you get only one chance cuz when you piss me off, i will drop your ass like hot cakes. I find it very hard to let things go and be friends with that person again after they have offended me. I have a short temper like that. I am working on that though cuz ppl have flaws and they are only human. When im around the same person all the time, they tend to annoy me after a while. The sme thing applies with guys, if I've been talkin to you for a minute, after a while, i start getting irritated and its time to cut that person off.

Hey, dont judge me, u guys said wierd things about me so thats what i have done.
I hereby tag everyone who hasn't been tagged to one of these.

Mo Gbono Fele Fele

Mo Gbono Fele Fele
Bi amala to jina gan gan
Dont hate me cuz im hotter than you

Im hotter than you
I'm hot and you're not

This song by D'banj has been stuck in my head since i heard it 2 days a go
I really didnt think too much about it when i first heard it but i surprised myself when i woke up singing it...I guess it snuck up on me.
Been feeling really lazy to blog lately especially with all these going on
Im also trying to move out of my apartment and move into a new one
If i had realized that i had so much stuff, i would have sat my butt in one place
Moving is taking way more than i expected and i absolutely hate it.....
I wish i was one of those rich madams so that i can hire people to move for me and all i have to do is just point and they move it but unfortunately i am a broke college students.

So anyway, my friend came over to my house yesterday to help me pack and while we were at it, she told me about this boy she has been talking to.
When they first started talking, they used to be on the phonbe all the time
Every moment they got was spent with each other and they were both so into each other
Well now they still get on the phone and talk but its different now, they just dont have anything to say
They have spatial discussions but they have those moments on the phone where no one is saying anything for like 10 minutes. (Im thinking to myself, why dont you just hang up?)
So she is unhappy cuz she feels that he is not into her anymore like he used to be and she asked me for my opinion. (once again i'm thinking if u think he is not into you, move on with your life sweetie)

Well i told her that since i wasn't very familiar with the guy in question, i couldnt answer the question of how he felt about her. But one thing i know based on my own experience, is that when you first start talking to someone, you guys are always talking non-stop. Cuz this is the initial phase of a potential relationship. You both trying to get to know each other. So basically you are laying everything out on the table and you are finding out things about each other.

But what happens when you get past the phase of getting to know each other and the real conversation is supposed to begin? If you have nothing to say to each other then except to listen to each other breathe, then maybe you guys dont really have as much in common as you thought.
Im not saying im right or wrong but that's just my own 2 cents..Lets see what you guys think.

So my mom went to naija yesterday and i am so jealous...I haven't been there in like 9 yrs and i really want to go but i can't seem to find the right time to go...hopefully i can make i happen this year.

Is it just me or when you go on facebook these days, everyone and their mama is in a relationship. That's a sign that summer is around the corner...

So guys, I'm gonna be in Houston for most of my summer. I'm not sure how i feel about this but I'll sure be bloggong about it. Hopefully, i make some new friends cuz i dont know anybody down there and i hope it's fun..This is one summer that may potentially change my life....

Anywayz, any of u guys know where i can get ankara styles besides that group on facebook "ankara styles"???????????????????????????????? I need some suggestions