Semester Over!!!!

Y'all cant even understand how excited I am right now. The semester officially ended for me at 9:10pm tonight..Im oh so excited..This has been the craziest semester of my entire life. Crazy times mehn..Will be back later for a proper blog..Im out..Ready for a 12 hr round of non-stop sleep..The last time i slept for 6 hrs straight was back in August..So right now, Im armed with my Tylenol PM and ready to do some serious damage..Man Down..Code 10..lmao

How Great Is Our God

Hello guys,
How are you all doing? Hope everything has been going all god. Well, I can't complain because God has been awesome. Can't believe that the semester is almost over, I don't know how i got this far into the semester except that it was just by the grace of God. He has been ever so faithful even in my unfaithfuness and I cannot thank him enough. I think it just hit me that we only have a few weeks left in the year and we would be starting a new year. I love new years because it just brings new hope. You know that feeling you get when you start a new year and you have all these prophecies and hope to liveby. I just love that.
So what is my reason for this post? I got into blogging around this time last year and I would just lurk around reading people's posts and entries and it just made me so excited to see the bond and how people truly cared (or at least they acted like they did). Few weeks after, i got introduced to the blog world, around this time last year, I got into a very horrible accident. It was really bad and everytime I look at the pics i get teary eyed all over. This was an accident that should have ended my life by all accounts. My car was totalled and it even caught on fire. I have always been curious to find out how the airbags pop out and what they really looked like and let's just say I did..And to top it off, I walked out of that car without a scratch or an ache..Scariest moment of my whole life. My life really flashed before my eyes. But God chose to spare my life and I will always be grateful and Love him. Im just so happy that I am still alive and have made tremenduous progress. I went to church today and the song "How Great is our God, sing with me..How great, how great is our God" has stuck with me and I love it. Anyway Guys, i've got an exam to study for. Hope you have an awesome weekend..Be back soon

Barack Obama is the Next President of the United States of America!!!!

I am in a state of shock right now....I can't believe I amn so damn emotional rigth now..
I mean, I kind of knew all along that he was going to win the presidency but it just hit me right now. The magnitude of this election is just beyond belief. I can actually sit down 60 years from now with my grandkids and tell them about this. I just thank God for this because this election is not only affecting the United Stated but also the world. People needed something to believe in and we got just that. I am too excited right now. Obama not only won the presidency but the democrats also won the House of Reps and Senate. How crazy is that?????Unreal. Just hope he doesnt get killed and people need to understand that just because he won doesnt mean the economy is gonna change overnight. It took 20 years to do the damage and it going to take longer to get it fixed. He will just be setting the foundation in the right direction. I just heard his speech and I am so moved by it. We made history tonight. Now i really believe that people have no excuse to not strive for greatness. We were all kind of looking for someone to set the trend and now that we got it, i just feel like I am unstoppable. I just want to do more and be more involved and just better myself overall. I mean i always knew that I would leave to see an African-American president but i never imagined that I would see it so soon. For the first time in my adult life, I am proud to be an American. Anyway i am so excited right now and cant really get my thoughts together but i will be back to update. God Bless America!!!!!

Back Like I Never Left

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Before you say it.....I know I have been gone for too long and I apologize for that..E ma binu...Lets just thank God the month is over cuz its been a long hectic one. But most importantly I am back..Just been busy with school, work and applying to schools so its been crazy..I don;t even know where to begin or what to write but I am sure i have stories for days to share. Can you believe I had to schedule this post into my planner? Yes, its that crazy..but i have been lurking around a couple of blogs and i tired to keep up with some blogs.
Maybe its just me but blogville has slowly but surely been dying down for me, i get on here and I am not even sure if i want to share somethings but maube thats because a lot of my blogvill eppl are no longer on blogville or they just blog sporadically but mehn this place needs to be revived.
Anyway right now my focus is on this election that is coming up in about 4 days. Seriously though, I am ready for this saga to be over. Watching McCain and Obama bicker back and forth everyday is starting to annoy me. They just keep going back and forth like littel kids and personally I would be so happy when its over at least I wont have to hear their garbage on a daily anymore. Personally, I am still trying to figure out why McCain decided to punish himself by running for President. As in the man is about 70 yrs old, you have all the money you can possibly want (He doesnt even know how many houses he has), so why would you want to run for public office as such an old age when u should be retired, sitting on your porch and playing with your grandkids or just reading a damn book.
I know personally that if i was eighty years old, I would want to be traveling the world with my hubbie and visiting my grandkids. But anyway to each his own.
Even though Obama has been doing good in the polls for a while now, I am still scared that they might try to pull some stunts on Tuesday and declare McCain the winner and after all, the electoral college decides who wins, so that still has me a little paranoid. We shall see what happens.
So anyways as per tonight is halloween and everyone is trick or treating, I wont be participating in that action cuz i dont really do halloween. My parents never encouraged it when I was younger and now that I am older I dont really care for it. I think i might take my ass to happy hour cuz i need a drink or two. and i need to sleep. Dont remember the last time i slept for more than 5 hours.
I cant wait to finish school and have a career so i can live the life of most of these people i fantasize about on facebook that seem to have it all ..Just partying, hanging out with friends after work and living la vida loca...not worrying abt school or exams and all that ish. Anyway its all over in 4 wks..Hooray..
I gotta come back and tell y'all abt my new boo..Ive been running away from it (or should i say him) for like 3 yrs now but its time to man up...lol. Anyway gotta go back to writing this paper. See y'all later..Have a good one.

Economic Crisis and foolish men

Hey guys,
How are you guys doing? Hope everyone is having a better week than I am. This week has already started out crazy and personally, i just can't wait for Dcember- this semester is messing with my life-literarily..I feel like I'm losing my damn mind.
Woke up yesterday turned on the news and i just got so sad. It kills me to watch the economy do so poorly. All the giant financial firms filing for bankruptcy..its just so SAD. yesterday over 25,000 people lost their job with Lehman Brothers..i just cant help but think that some of these people have families that are depending on them for stability. How do you wake up one morning and just lose everything. Just hope that everybody has some form of stability during this hard times. Be smart with your money and have some kind of savings because at this rate we are going, anything can happen.
School has been keeping me very busy and i am just praying to God for strength and divine favor.
So i got this message on facebook that just had me dying. This random naija guy sent me a message and its just the funniest.
Hello, I know that u are a caliber, nice, good, mature, with a full integrity, that some can move closer to. Even though I don’t know anything about u. I wish one day I will see u and we be a helper for ourselves. I am Bamidele, from Nigeria. pls I will like to know more about u and ur details. Thanks Bamidele.
This fool gave me all his cell phone numbers and email address and he wanted mine.He sent me like 5 different messages so i finally responded. Mind you this guy looks like he could be my uncle with kids. Anyways, here's my response: dont have a phone live on the streetz of america alone.........such is life but thanks to a friend that is making me use her computer now.......hmmmmmmm such is life
So you think this idiot got the clue right? NO
So he sent me another message today saying: Ok, there's no problem, we can countact ourselves through facebook. but i can see it in ur profile that u are a manager of ur company. Have u married?or u are still alone. pls reply
Like can this guy seriously be serious? Which kain level of fuckery is this? Why are some people so damn desperate. Im not even gonna bother replying him because he will get cursed out and i aint going down that road for some asshole. But anyways that's it for today. Have a good week guys.

Nigerian Clown

It's the first of the month!!!!!I am so happy this year is almost over even though i have so much to accomplish before 2008 rolls out. I was happy to be doing nothing on a school day cuz it was labor day. I love holidays no matter how short they are. Anyways, people never seem to amaze me. So I'm on my computer chatting up with my boo and someone IMed (If that's a word) from a screenname that i didnt recognize. So im trying to figure out who this clown is, and i realize that he was a complete stranger, so i told him i didnt want to chat cuz i really wasnt interested in making any new friends. And the clown was trying to make me look stupid because i didnt want to talk to him. So i did what i do best, I blocked him and the idiot went and made up another screenname just to bother my life. He had the nerve to tell me that i was being childish and immature because he was trying to get to know me and i wasn't responding. Like seriously, since when did it become by force to make new friends or talk to somebody? And why do i have to be chuldish and immature. He was really trying to figure out where i live, like did he really think i was stupid enuff to give up that information or any other information. Im still trying ot figure out how he found me because he claims he saw my pic and my screeenname on facebook but my screeename isn't on facebook and my accoun is private. You cant find me in a search unless i add you. And if you not my friend you definitely cant see my profile or my pic eveb in my network. It just pisses me off when some of these naija chewing gum boyz come off too strong and feel like you are obligated to respond to their garbage. I didn't know it was by force to talk to someone cuz he even tried to tell me that it was a free country and a free world which means that he could contact anyone he wanted. Has anyone ever heard such foolishness? I had to block him again and i hope the idiot doesn't try to contact me again cuz i got some choice words for him. I tried to be as nice as possible but the second time around will not be so good.
Anyways, apart from that clown, today was quite uneventful. I couldn't go to the bbq i was planning on attending cuz yours truly has a cold and a fever. Like seriously, who has a cold in 88 degree weather? Me, apparently. So yea, i had to stay home and catch up on my shows. i hope i feel better soon cuz i cant even afford to be sick right now. Got too much on my plate. When school is over, then all the viruses can make an appearance but for right now, they aren't welcome.
I hope you guys are enjoying your week, Have a wonderfuk week guys...

Holiday is Over!!!!!!

So the long awaited summer is finally over!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *tear tear*

Hey guys, long time no speak....I know i have been really bad with keeping up with my blog this summer..Been too busy planning the rest of my life. I cant believe its almost time to get back to the books and eventually wearing layers and layers of winter clothes. I'm kinda sad but the thought that i will be graduating May 2009 is what is keeping me going and i just want to get it over and done with..

I just thank God for his amazing grace and mercy upon my life especially this sumer, he has proven that he is really all that i need to survive. Even though nothing i planned went how i hoped it would, this is the best summer i have ever had and i owe it all to God. Despite my unfaithfulness, he has remained faithful and i cannot shout enough...I hope his grace continually remains in my life and i will continue to try my best not to abuse that grace.



I missed you guys on blogville!!!!! All you faithful bloggers, i have so much respect for you mehn because keeping up with your blog aint easy....ITS HARDWORK!!!!!

Sometimes, i browse thru your blogs, Thanks to whoever invented that fave blog thingy that keeps up with updates from your fave bloggers, without it, i would have been completely lost on blogville..

The blogville family has grown tremeduously, i see so many new blog names that i dont recognize..I guess that's a good thing.

One major thing, that has kept me away from blogging are my vacations. Got a chance to go London, Italy, Miami and a whole bunch of other places and while I'm away, the last thing i want to do is blog. I feel totally refreshed from these trips and despite the fact that i wasnt working a paying job this summer, God was still able to provide my needs by sending wonderful people my way to help me out. I never lacked and I never had to beg and I dont owe anyone..That's a testimony right there...GOD IS AWESOME!!!!!!

So now that school is about to start, i need to make some readjustments as a blogger because i feel that i have been MIA for too long and i am starting to loose the connection i once had with some of my fave bloggers. I know i am going to be crazy busy this semester taking 21 credits and 2 internships but i am a firm believer in doing whatever i pt my mind to. So, i am going to try to blog at least once every other week and make my blog rounds at least once a week and comment on your blogs. Commenting has been a big problem for me lately and i dunno why. I visit your blogs but i find it so hard to comment on the post but i am breaking that cycle from this moment...Even if i just type hi, at least i commented and hopefully it shows that i care about your blog...And that includes replying when you comment on my posts...Trust me, i read them all even though i am too laxy to comment back...I really have to get rid of this spirit of laziness, its eating me alive.



So since this is my last yr of undergrad, i plan on making the best of it. I am hitting up every HBCU homecoming ( I wish!!!but i plan on hitting up a few). And pls dont get me started on spring break but the most important is getting into grad school so guys, pls say a lil prayer for me..abeg.

So i hope all you fellow students out there are getting ready to go back to school (unlike me) and i wish you all a splendid semester.



P.S. Chari and Buttercuo, what happened to ur blog, I cant access it.

Somebody hook me up with wedding webbie's...I need a fix..lol..s.eriously though

Weekend thoughts

Hey guys what it do? lol..that didnt even sound right coming from me
Hope u guys had a wonderful week..as for me..it was same old same old..But hey, I cant complain..gotta give thanks to God regardless
So yes its finally Friday and I'm sure you guys are excited and ready for whatever the weekend has to offer..
I'm looking forward to seeing Dark Knight tonite (its got a nice ring to it)...unfortunately, i cant seem to entice anyone to go with me..But who cares, i think i might go by myself cuz i really want to see it..I remember when i used to think that the idea of going to the movies or anywhere else by urself was just absolutely absurd...It screamed loner!!!!! But lately, i actually enjoy the time i spend alone..Im so happy by myself and i love it...Being by myself makes me incredibly happy ..i know i sound like a loser but who cares...The last couple pf trips have help me reaffirm this concept....when im around too many ppl, after a while, im just ready to go home and crawl in my bed....I have also learnt a lot about myself..I guess, im going through a period of self discovery..late bloomer, i know
Picked up a couple of hobbies along the way..i tell ya, the Internet is wonderful..u can find absolutely anything on there. My laptop is like my best friend..picked up cooking and lets just say i have had a couple of hit and miss..Im not saying i cant cook oo...b4 u guys jump to conclusion..i've just been trying a couple of new things and i love it....

I have been snooping around the Internet and also based on the conversations that i have had with people recently, i have come to the conclusion that all you Naija guys do not appreciate your fellow Naija women..Yes i said it and you know it's true..
All i keep hearing is Naija girls wear weave and blah blah...Honestly, i'm a firm believer in "if you don't got it, you don't need it" but hey different strokes for different folks.. The closest i ever come to a weave is braids and that's it...But anywayz, i actually like when ppl wear weaves as long as its done right..All these women on tv..e.g Beyonce and co, wear weaves, so y cant my fellow naija sistas get away with it??? Not everyone is born with long hair and personally, I like the versatility it provides..U guys always talkin about u cant run ur fingers thru her weave..yes u can just make sure u dont go to deep...Even the white girls that you are all talkin about, an increasing number of white girls too are startin to rock weaves so dont put it on just naija girls..

Some other gorilla looking boy, was telling me that all naija girls are bad in bed..and i wasnt surprised cuz it wasn't the first time i heard that crap..first of all i think, its an individual thing bot a naija girl thing..second of all, i believe u guys dont know what u are doing either so dont blame it on us...Naija gurls have truly suffered i tell ya...If u display freakish tendencies, they label you a whore or non-wifey material..If u try to act like u r wifey material..they still complain...Una need to make up ur mind and figure it out...
So I'm expecting you guys to come in here and defend urself because Im seriously reconsidering u guys...
Anyway, I'm currently watching Run's House and i absolutely love Russy..i wish i had a little brother like him, he would be so spoiled..The boy is too cute..everything he does is cute to me....

Can you guys believe summer is over, school starts again in about 6 weeks..This is weird but i'm so ready to go back to school. Being in school taught me to manage my time and be so disciplined. Just staying home all day has totally made me a slacker..Been tryin to study for Grad school exams and lets just say it hasn't been going good at all..No motivation...that's extra bad considering the fact that in this day, having a bachelor's degree is like having a high school diploma...crappy jobs with crappy pay..that will not be my portion in Jesus Name..times have truly changed.....

Anyways, I gotta get back to watching my show...be back in a couple of hours to add more stuff
P.S. have a spectacular weekend guys

Second Half of the Year

Hey Blogville,
How ya doing on this lovely Monday? Hope everyone's week started out great. This post is long overdue but hey procastination is a bi**ch. Cant seem to sit down and actually start typing. Time is flying by like its on steroids or something. Can you believe its the second half of the onth already? Befoe you know it, the year will be over and 2009 will be here.
This past couple of weeks has opened my eyes to a lot of different issues that is going on...Something def aint right. People are losing their jobs, the economy has gone from bad to worse..they even talkin about another great depression..can you believe that mess? i hope things turn out well soon..ppl are getting divorced all over the place..I know of 2 ppl that got married in 2006 that are already divorced and another marriage is on the rocks....It's just sad hearing stories like that cuz it makes me second guess the whole marriage thing. Anyway God is in control and i hope they are able to work out their differences behind closed doors. I did my blog rounds yesterday and lets just say hmmmm..interesting...Speaking of blog rounds..what happened to DL's blog..If you are reading this missy, add me bak to ur list cuz i cant seem to view your blog..
I was gonna blog about something else but i kinda forgot...hope i remember soon.dats what happens when you dont blog immediately you get the idea...
ANyway, i hope you guys have a wonderful second half of the year...be back lata

P.S. I just saw the video for 9ice's song "street credibility" and all i can say is wow..Totally blew me away. The man is so talented and the video is hot. He is definitely gonna be great..Naija is officially on the map...Watch out guys..we got some great talents outta naija

Monday Blues

Hello blogville,
Hope u guys had a wonderful weekend...still waiting to read about them..Anyway, I am slowly recovering from my sleeping sickness...but i cant even front though..being able to sleep like that was surely good...Was home all day and extremely bored and i decided to take Naija Finegirl's advice and read Mr. Fineboy's blog and can i say she was right..Reading his old blogs surely did the trick for me. Thank goodness i was home alone cuz someone would have thought i was loosing it for real..Don't remember the last time i laughed so hard..he is a true story teller...I wish my life was as interesting as his...So if you are feeling a little down, just go over to his blog and read from the beginning..You will be feeling a bit better by the time you are done.
So i went away last week for a couple of days. It was kinda like a reunion seeing my friends that i had not seen since the last event and so on. Too much socializing and lack of sleep going on..
So i saw a friend there, Sope. Sope happens to be one of my close friends, Dapo's roommate. Before me and Dapo became really close, he used to like me but we decided that we would be better of as friends due to different issues. Sope on the other hand is very aware that his roommate likes me and still thinks there is something going on between us but yet his dumbass still tried to talk to me. I Thought that was very disrespectful and two tiiming on his part but hey, some guys are flat out foolish..I got too much respect for myself to go down that road with him especially since i know everything there is to know about him and his history aint exactly great. Ready to chase after everything that got a vajayjay. He kept following me around trying to get me to kiss him...i think he is partially responsible for me being sick cuz i am repulsed by him. Putting everything aside, why would you try to go after a girl that one of your homeboy's is interested in? Two timing at its finest... He did a great job of pissing me off but i cant be bothered to continue blogging about his ass.

And then there was Koye, blogged abt him a couple of times in the past, i was ezpeting sparks to fly everywhere like it was 4th of july or something but when i saw him, there was nothing, I was actually mad that he was there..Like why did you show up..And i giess he felt the same way cuz we were excited for like 2 seconds and the rest of the time there, we stayed out of each others paths. He mostly stayed away from me..I guess cuz there were other girls there that were feeding his ego...But ever since Ive been back, homeboy has been blowing up my phone like his life depended on it. Im oh so confused...as in, why are you calling me? last time i checked, i wasnt owing anyone money..maybe the credit card company but he doesn't work for them...


But all in all, I had a great time and i miss my girls..wish we can all go on vacation together to the bahams or something sipping on Strawberry Daiquiris and checking out the sexy island boys...

Quick question guys, Do you think its is fair to hold pastors children to a higher standard than other ppl..i.e. in terms of drinking, sex, clubbing, dating and other things that ppl judge?

I'm off to go continue reading Mr. Fineboy's blog...Have a great week guys

Sleeping Sickness

Hi Blogville,
How una dey? I have missed you guys so much...dont worry though, im gonna make my blog rounds after this post..Your girl is a little sick..I guess its cuz I've been very stressed out and my body is finally shutting down on me...I dont remember the last time I slept this much..Since yesterday, I could bbarely keep my eyes open for more than hour..which is very wierd cuz i dont sleep. When the rest of the works is sleeping, my ass is up like its daytime or something..If people got paid for staying up, I should have been a billionaire by now..

This past couple of days have been very very interesting..all kind of wierd things happened to me mehn.. im feeling sleepy again..would be back lata

Friday the 13th

Mo Gbona Fele Bi Amala to jina gan gan..dont hate me cuz im hotter than you!!!!!!
And i mean that literally, Its hot as hell i n this place..not that i know or ever want to know how hot hell is...And if its as hot as it is now, then i definitely need to straighten up my act cuz i definitely dont want to end up there..

For real, for real, I love my blog family..U guys are ridiculously awesome!!!!!FANTABULOUS!!!
Blogging has definitely been a source of therapy for me...a free one at that cuz u know nothing beats free anyday...Instead of going to sit on some lady with glasses couch and pay like $200 per session..i just come here and in a couple of hours you guys have me feeling like a million bucks....Im personally mailing out hugs and kisses to you guys....Oya go and check your mail box and start picking them up....Why are you still sittinng there? I said go get your personalized hugs and kisses from your mailbox...U guys are really awesome, i swear!!!!
And to all the new bloggers on the block, i give you my warmest welcome...Welcome into A WONDERFUL AND LOVING FAMILY..Hope blogville is everything you want it to be and it serves the purpose for which you created it...Being doing my rounds and some of yu got some nice stuff

I don't know why but I'm feeling extra good today...Im just bubbling inside like someone just handed me a blank check....Say Amen jor!!! Maybe is because i just realized that Im not doing as bad as I thought i was. Therea are some ridiculous people in this world, i tell ya...PLAIN OLD RIDICULOUS!!!!! Will blog about it in a few minutes....

Can someone please explain to me why gas prices are so damn high?????And since when did food get so expensive?? I tire for this country oo..Dey no go kill erson sha!!! I went to fill up my tankk yesterday and i damn near caught a heart attack..As in, i'm staring at the pump, and the money keeps going up and up while the gas keeps pumping..Im like when will this stupid thing stop...When it stopped, my total was $68.73..CHINEKE ME!!!! I don die.....I remember when i used to fill up my tank for $20 and now $20 can't even buy me a quarter tank....I paid that much for gas when i still had a quarter in my tank...It is high time i invest in a bicycle...WHere can i get a bicycle my people?????
Food is another no go area...the two things you cannot cut back on are so expensive..I'm going back to my garri soaking days..
Speaking of soaking garri, I found the razzest thing on facebook..HOW TO SOAK GARRI..If there is one video you watch today, let it be this one...JOBLESSNESS AT ITS FINEST!!!!Make sure you watch it

So my friend sent me this post and i almost died laughing..some people are crazy sha..Who owns the breast? the husband or the child? hahahahahaha..let's just say joblessness is a disease and should be avoided at all cost...

For all you yoruba movie lovers out there, please watch German Machine..ise kuse at its best..Some ppl are just plain ol' nasty..NASTY I TELL YA....but it was funny..so if u aint doing much this weekend, go on youtube and watch it, its nuttin like you have ever seen..at least it was a first for me.

On a lighter note....my east coast homies, the CELTICS are bringing it home this year...All you lakers fans out there...sorry but your boy Kobe isn't bringing it home this year.

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND GUYS!!!!WHATEVER YOU DO, HAVE FUN DOING IT AND I'LL BE BACK TO READ ABOUT IT...*****HUGS & KISSES*****

Weekend from HELL!!!!!

To say that I am pissed off is an understatement
I dont remember the last time i was this mad...hell, dont even think I've been this mad this year
Ok i know im not the most patient and tolerating person in the world but hey it is who I am, so bite me jor..Im allowed to have flaws and pet peeves...
At my age, i can't be trying to change who I am to accommodate one buffoon that just fell off a tree...Don't get me wrong, I am striving to be a better me but sometimes I can't help myself when people knowingly get on my nerves...U definitely gonna get a reaction out of me and probably a beat down....

So what and who is responsible for my rage?
So anyway I was totally expecting this weekend to be fun-filled and never ending but Im sure glad its over..
One of my mom's friends daughter decided to that she wanted to come down and spend the weekend with us and I was actually looking forward to it.
I had the whole weekend planned out and everything, places to go, ppl to see and the whole nine
Friday started out fine until I had to take my brother to the store (got a couple of names for his ass but i'll refrain myself). This lil booger had me driving for close to an hour looking for target and when we got there, he was wasting my time looking for some gift for one of the stupid girls he talks to. So that already ticked me off because one of the few things i hate most in my life is people wasting my time. I absolutely hate it...When i tell you to be somewhere at 9am, I expect ur ass to be there at 8:55 otherwise u are so late.. That's just me ..everyone is different so spare me...Don't like waiting on ppl when i could have been doing something more important with my life

Anyway back to the point, this girl comes to visit and just does everything that i hate it to completely piss me off.
First of all, she is a yr older than me and i guess she felt that it was a license to boss me around and send me on little errands, but this chica was so wrong cuz i take orders from no one..Who cares if you are a yr older, you can go jump off a bridge for all i care. I wonder why some people are so keen on this stupid age thing. You can be as old as you want to be technically cuz you dont have a choice but that is not a guarantee that you are wiser or smarter than I am..NO WAY JOSE!!!
When you say someone is lazy, she def fits the description. Didnt lift a finger the whole weekend which i really didnt mind at first cuz im used to cleaning up after people anyways but when you start going into my personal stuff and taking my stuff without asking, then you have crossed the line and it is time to whoop your ass like your mama should have done when your ass was still a child. She had random ppl coming in and out of our house without even letting us know that she was inviting her friends over. I mean seriously, you dont leave here, so you gotta ask before bringing ppl over. Hell, i still let my parents know im bringing people over before they come even though i know they wouldn't mind. Pschewwwwww..its all about respecting others which clearly my friend here knows nothing about..
Name that line and she crossed it...from putting her hand in my food to trying to make me vacate my own bed(when we have an empty guest room). The chick even went as afar as taking my car out without my permission...Crossed all the damn boundaries I tell ya.
My mom kept giving me some flimzy excuse that she is only a guest here and would be leaving soon, so to try and accommodate her but all that is bull crap to me...Like seriously, i dont care how close we are and shit but you dont come in my house and turn my shit around and try to give me advice on how shit should be run...Like you dont see me coming in your house and telling you how to run your shit...Mehn, some ppl need to be kicked off this earth. To make matters worse, i had an interview this afternoon that she was very well aware of but she decided to take the car and head out to the mall while i missed my interview. That was what made me go crazy..I'm like this gotta be some kind of a joke but the joke was clearly on me
Im just so heated and I know this sounds very mean and all, but i really cant wait to see her leave.Last night here Thank God.Was having a rather nice and boring summer before this chick showed but now, im just ready to even leave...Damn....

I need to calm down and relax...Woosah...Woosah..Woosah...shit..this isn't working..(excuse my french)..Maybe i need to just go to sleep and hope that tomorrow is a better day since she would be gone by then.
Anyways, Im off to bed to think of some plan on what to do cuz somebody has got to pay for all these built up anger inside me...ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH...I hate feeling this way, but like all other things, this too shall pass.

Wus Up People

Hey Guys, itsa been a mighty long time.Hope u guys didnt miss me too much
I've just been having a very blah moment lately....but hey, ya gurl is back like I never left
Its been a couple of times where i just sat in front of my computer but the motivation to actually start typing the words and thoughts in my head just wasn;t there.
Dont worry though, I've been keeping up wih all your posts and stuff...I wish they had some kinda technology that typed what you were thinking about..

So anyway sha, school is out for summer YAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYY (doing some kinda dance)The GPA is looking great and no summer school for me Thank God. Been taking summer classes since i go into school.All i have to do is take 7 more classes and your gurl will be a college graduate. I cant wait to head off to grad school and move on with the rest of my life. People keep telling me that once im done with school Im gonna want to go back..I doubt that will be the case with me as long as i have a job and i'm getting paid.i will be good to go..This whole school sheningans is not for me.

So yea, Im spending my summer over in Houston and let's just say it hasn't started out too good. It's hella hot down here..As in we are having 94 degree weather in May. I would hate to see what July would feel like. I have come to the conclusion that being hot brings out the worst in me. I've been so cranky and just snapping at everyone and i have no motivation of leaving the air-conditioned house for the humid air. Everytime i step out, that heat wave just sends some kind of paralysing effect. I just get so tired .I dont know how they do it.

So since, im not taking any summer classes, I decided to get a job but it has not been easy. Everywhere i have applied to, they keep talking about I need experience or they gave the job to someone with more experience and Im like Motherf****rs (excuse my french) how the hell am i supposed to have experience when you wont give me a job. Like am i supposed to give my self-experience? I hope i get a job soon cuz that will just ruin my summer

What the hell is going on with this stupid economy? Spending $65 on gas is absolutely ridiculous considering the fact that i had a quarter tank in my car. Gas is no joke mehn. That's part of the reasons why i don't go out as much. Gas is just one of those things that you can't cut back on, you just gotta get it. I bought a gallon of milk for $4 today at Walmart and mehn, i was very tempted to just completely eliminate milk from my diet...Kilode? You can't even afford to buy food these days...Everuthing is just so expensive and meanwhile minimum wage is not going up and ppl cant get jobs. Cant wait for that stupendous buffoon of a president to leave office..That bastard just ran us down...We need some serious divine intervention in this country.

Anyways, on to more positive sturves..Can u believe it's june already? I remember it like itwas yesterday when we entered into a new year and everything was just looking fantabulous..Now we are almost half way through the year and before you know it, we will be singing HAPPY NEW YEAR again..Anyway, i went to church today and the pastor was talking about God restoring our lives and eliminating all forms of delay. So I am tapping into that blessing and believing God for some restorations in my life (would be back to blog about it). God is good sha..I had fun today at church..Twas a wonderful service.

So after church today, me and my friend were jejely and gbadunly (lol..new slang i heard) walking to our car whe this random lady that i have never seen before stopped us..She was like you girls are so pretty and look like responsible wifey materials. She was like u girls dont become akatas oo and that she has 3 responsible sons- age 30, 25 and 22. The woman gave us her number telling us to call her and blah blah blah..I was just laughing cuz i have never experienced such craziness before..I guess you learn something new everyday..If she really expects us to call her then she would be waiting for ever..I mean damn, i know i want a boo and all but i sure aint that desperate. Wonders will never end sha...

So lately, I realized that there have been a lot of new relationships on facebook..I;m like that's a first sign that summer is here. Everyone wants to be hooked up for the summer. Everyone wants to be seen and show off their boos..By the time September rolls around again, they would have broken up...

Blogville has been looking rather dry lately..Everyone is disappearing..i wonder what kinda epidemic is going on around here...DL and Risquediva where are you guys ooooooo??
To all of u that checked up on me during my mini-vacation, thanks a lot..Love u guys and missed you loads..

Hope this year brings you nothing but pure happiness...Ciao

I was tagged by Soupasexy
Here are the rules:

1.link the person who tagged you…

2. Mention the rules in your blog…

3. Tell about 6 unspectacular quirks of yours...

4. Tag 6 following bloggers by linking them…

5. Leave a comment on each of the tagged blogger’s blogs letting them know they’ve been tagged...

I hate doing these things but imma do one anyways..I am very wierd but these are some of my quirks:

1. I think i have insomnia, I find it very difficult to sleep for more than 5 hrs at at a time. I have to be sick or something for me to fall asleep for a prolonged period. And no matter what time i go to sleep, i cant sleep past 9am. Even if i was partying the night before and came home at 7am, i still wake up at 9ish. I have to get up, do some things before i can go back to sleep again...I told u i was weird. When I'm in public places like the mall or other events where i know that i am guaranteed to be bothered by stupid guys, i pretend to be on the phone. I just can't be bothered to be engaged in stupid conversations. Or sometimes, when im around someone and i need an excuse, I tend to play with my phone nd set it to ring like 2 mins later so that it seems that someone just called.


2. When I'm by myself, i tend to talk to myself. I could hold a whole conversation by myself. Dont need anyone around. Ive been doing that since i was little and now i just cant help myself.

3. I love SHOES!!!!! People tell me i have a disease but i actually love my disease. I could go shopping and only buy shoes and i would be completely satisfied with no regrets. I am a strong believer that with the right shoes you can rock any outfit. I have gotten away with wearing jeans and a t-shirt to parties and i was able to pull it off with the right pair of shoes and yes, i always get compliments. I have a whole bunch of shoes but i cant tell you guys how much i have..its simply crazy how much shoes i have. I have a closet full of shoes. I am so bad to the point that even with guys, i tend to look at their shoes and judge them by it. No use being so cute when you cant dress..Sorry, i cant help it.

4. I am some what of a neat freak. You being a guy is not an excuse to be a slob. I cant stand people who are untidy. Everything has to be in place. No dirty dishes or clothes on the floor. The whole nine. I even wash my bathtub every morning before i get in even though i'm the only one that uses it. I just cant help myself. I do my laundry like twice a week. The sight of an overflowing laundry basket is not a good look...

5.I am such a water head. i can cry at the drop of a hat. when im watching a movie, i cry. when i hear sad situations, i cry. when i misplace something i cry. i cry when im lonely. I can be happy one minute and the next minute im crying. Sometimes, I dont even know why am crying. In most case, i wont stop crying until someone acknowledges me and gives me some attention.

6. When i love, I love really hard. I love meeting new people and making friends. I tend to sacrifice a lot for my friends but you get only one chance cuz when you piss me off, i will drop your ass like hot cakes. I find it very hard to let things go and be friends with that person again after they have offended me. I have a short temper like that. I am working on that though cuz ppl have flaws and they are only human. When im around the same person all the time, they tend to annoy me after a while. The sme thing applies with guys, if I've been talkin to you for a minute, after a while, i start getting irritated and its time to cut that person off.

Hey, dont judge me, u guys said wierd things about me so thats what i have done.
I hereby tag everyone who hasn't been tagged to one of these.

Mo Gbono Fele Fele

Mo Gbono Fele Fele
Bi amala to jina gan gan
Dont hate me cuz im hotter than you

Im hotter than you
I'm hot and you're not

This song by D'banj has been stuck in my head since i heard it 2 days a go
I really didnt think too much about it when i first heard it but i surprised myself when i woke up singing it...I guess it snuck up on me.
Been feeling really lazy to blog lately especially with all these going on
Im also trying to move out of my apartment and move into a new one
If i had realized that i had so much stuff, i would have sat my butt in one place
Moving is taking way more than i expected and i absolutely hate it.....
I wish i was one of those rich madams so that i can hire people to move for me and all i have to do is just point and they move it but unfortunately i am a broke college students.

So anyway, my friend came over to my house yesterday to help me pack and while we were at it, she told me about this boy she has been talking to.
When they first started talking, they used to be on the phonbe all the time
Every moment they got was spent with each other and they were both so into each other
Well now they still get on the phone and talk but its different now, they just dont have anything to say
They have spatial discussions but they have those moments on the phone where no one is saying anything for like 10 minutes. (Im thinking to myself, why dont you just hang up?)
So she is unhappy cuz she feels that he is not into her anymore like he used to be and she asked me for my opinion. (once again i'm thinking if u think he is not into you, move on with your life sweetie)

Well i told her that since i wasn't very familiar with the guy in question, i couldnt answer the question of how he felt about her. But one thing i know based on my own experience, is that when you first start talking to someone, you guys are always talking non-stop. Cuz this is the initial phase of a potential relationship. You both trying to get to know each other. So basically you are laying everything out on the table and you are finding out things about each other.

But what happens when you get past the phase of getting to know each other and the real conversation is supposed to begin? If you have nothing to say to each other then except to listen to each other breathe, then maybe you guys dont really have as much in common as you thought.
Im not saying im right or wrong but that's just my own 2 cents..Lets see what you guys think.

So my mom went to naija yesterday and i am so jealous...I haven't been there in like 9 yrs and i really want to go but i can't seem to find the right time to go...hopefully i can make i happen this year.

Is it just me or when you go on facebook these days, everyone and their mama is in a relationship. That's a sign that summer is around the corner...

So guys, I'm gonna be in Houston for most of my summer. I'm not sure how i feel about this but I'll sure be bloggong about it. Hopefully, i make some new friends cuz i dont know anybody down there and i hope it's fun..This is one summer that may potentially change my life....

Anywayz, any of u guys know where i can get ankara styles besides that group on facebook "ankara styles"???????????????????????????????? I need some suggestions

U guys are the best

TGIF.....This week started out kinda slow but im glad its over...
This is post is for all of you who responded to my last post to check up on me and what not
U guys rock and i love y'all..mwahhhhhhhhhhh
After reading your comments...i couldn't stay mad for longer
You sure know how to lift a sister's spirits up.
So a big thank you shout out goes to u guys..
Anyway my car is still not fixed yet but after putting much pressure on the dealer, they are sending me another key...So hopefully i get it tomorrow...

I was able to do my paper over and hand it in time..Just got the paper back and i definitely got an A..
Never knew that i had mastered the art of BSing...Cuz thats what i did but i guess it paid of in the end...
I have so much work to do so Im gonna catch up on it this weekend...
School is over in 2 weeks...Yes 2 weeks....Im so excited...

You guys remember my last post on the RUNAWAY BOY, anyway the stupendous element(lol) called me yesterday talking about he has been going through midlife crisis and what not...I just wasn't interested in whatever he had to say so i told him to get his life in order and call me back...Im so over him at this point and i'm happy about that. I do not need unecessary stress at this point in my life.. Afterall, my father did not kill my mother abi?

So i was on facebook yesterday and i got an invitation to join a group..So before joining the group i decided to take a look at it cuz the title of the group peaked my interest...Usually i dont joing groups cuz they r pointless....
Anyway it was this stupid naija man...mind u when i say man i mean close to 3o..grown ass man still behaving foolishly...thats just up and down sad..Anyway back to what i saw..
The purpose of the group was to find a wife...A wife on facebook?
The idiot had the nerve to have requirements...
She must have a degree in the health profession, preferably a nurse or something like that
She must know how to cook most of the yoruba meals cuz that's all eats..
Must be willing to have at least 4 kids....You see that this idiot don kolo...
he had other requirements but those are the ones that stuck out to me...and by the way she must be yoruba cuz his family wont tolerate anything else...to make matters worse the idiot put his phone number and asked interested applicants to apply...the fool said applicants like this is some job application....nonsense
I just find it very strange that in this day and age some ppl still think like this....
And as it gotten that bad that you have to go online to find a partner? ppl are wierd sha
One of my family friend in naija recently got in touch with me via facebook and we started chatting in IM..the dodoyo asked me to hook him up with one of my friends and im like my friends dont do across the ocean relationships but he kept pestering me and i was like ok just to get him off my back. 2 days later he sends me a message asking me to make sure that the girl i hook him up with has a big butt...that statement just sent me thru the roof..like he cannot be serious..so i had to tell him off and he had the nerve to get mad...Who cares??? U do not affect my life..Anyway i had to block the idiot...abi wetin concern(naija accent) agbero wit overload..pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...

Anywayz, my beautiful bloggers i hope u guys have a wonderful weekend..If u have nice weather in ur city then go out and do something fun wit ur friends...Im off to read other people's blogs........

Not my day

hey guys,,
Right now, i just feel like crawling up under a rock because everything that could possibly gpo wrong with one person in one day has gone wrong..Im trying really hard not to use the word depressed but Im not too far from it. i feel like this is some kind of bad dream and i need to wake up...I hope this is a bad dream...
I do not do well at all under pressure..in fact, i hate the feeling i get when i am stressed out..
I start getting really overwhelmed and all forms of my sanity just disappear..
People who saw me today probably think someone died cuz i was just so out of it..
Going to class today was just a waste of time cuz i have no idea what happened in any of my classes
I am trying to stay away from people cuz i dont want to snap on anybody before they call the Mental Hospital on my behalf..Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
The crazy thing about me though us that when one thing goes wrong, everything begins to crumble apart
I can deal with one thing, but once a series of unfortunate events begin to take place, i get so overwhelmed and i lose control..............

so what exactly happened?

I woke up this morning and got ready for work only to get to my car and discover that the remote for my car alarm wasnt working, that was the beginning of my problems..I tried opening the car with my keys and the stupid alrm went off for like 5 minutes...Put the key in the ignition and the car wouldnt come on..at this point, im laughing cuz its funny but i later realized that this was in no way a joke. I called the dealer and they told me i had to mail in the warranty papers with the car remote for a replacement. (why do i need to mail the warranty papers, shouldn't this bastards have the thing in heir computer). So thats where the problem lies, I have no clue where the warranty papers are..Their somewhere in my house 6 hrs away... Anyway, I call my job and tell them i will not make it to work cuz i have a family emergency and my boss was pretty cool about it...At this point, im like going crazy tearing my apartment apart cuz i need to be able to drive my car to work and run other errands..So now im basically carless while my car sits in front of my apartment..*tear tear*

Its time to go to class and i had a paper to hand in, so i try to print it out.Onlhy problem is that the paper is nowhere to be found..It disappeared, vanished, grew wings...What the hell is going on? i am sitting at my computer for about 45 minutes trying to find this paper but no luck..im sitting at my computer crying my eyes out and in the process my contacts fall out...shit..that was my last pair too, i was supposed to go pick up my prescription on wednesday..Anyway i took out the other one and put on my glasses. I get to class to tell my professor about my sad situation with my tear stained eyes practically begging for an extension...She gave me till tomorrow at 4pm...i guess im gonna have a sleepless night while trying to write the 8pg paper over..

In the process of calling everyone i know to help me with my car situation, my phone dies, so i try to charge my phone but there is yet another problem..my phone isnt charging, the charger is broken..At this point, Im oh so confused cuz just a couple of hrs ago, the charger was working fine so what went wrong?? Who did i offend? Abeg please leave me now..Anyway, I call one of my friends up and she lets me borrow her charger...All the ppl i called began to call bak nd text back but nobody is offering me any advice that will work concerning my car and i'm getting annoyed..If you dont have a solution pls dont disturb my life with unecessary conversation. I kno i'm being mean but im just overwhelmed and i need a solution

Right now, im supposed to be in class but i just dont have the energy or strength to be around ppl. I need amiracle at this point and if one more thing goes wrong, i dont know what im gonna do

Call it what you want

Hello my people, hope u guys had a great weekend and are ready to start this new week.
Anyway my week was a very interesting one and this weekend that i looked forward to is about to be over..
So anyway , i have joined the bandwagon of bloggers who started working out and i started going to the gym on Monday..If someone had told me that i would have lasted this long, i would have smacked them...Ive been going everyday ( I said everyday not every other day oo) for 2hrs..I have never been at the gum for more than 30 minutes at one time but this week i was there for 2hrs or more everyday..How is this possible? First of all, the cardio equipments in the gym have a TV connected to it..So while i'm on the treadmill, im also watching my shows which makes me stay on longer cuz i like to watch the whole show...its a win win situation...So after walking/running for an hr, i start doing abs and arm exercise and my partner is a certified beast...The girl does not understand the word STOP..she just keeps pushing and pushing..I know thats what i need but damn, can she cut me some slack, im a beginner...but now im starting to enjpy it..I cant wait to start seeing results. Hopefully i stick to it

So school is over in about 2 weeks..Thank God...I cant wait to get out of school and start working full time cuz being broke is no fun at all mehn...Seeing all those nice things in the stores and all i can do is window shop...That is not good for business

For some reason, i feel like partying...Not a club party ooo but one of those naija boogey down wedding party..Maybe when school is over, I will go back to Omosewa's old posts and see who is gettinbg married in my area and just crash their wedding. It's better to go to one of those parties where nobody knows me so that i can freely misbehave and not worry about all those uncles and aunties watching me...Sounds like a plan to me..

Before i forget, i was just on the naija reunion website www.nrconline.com cuz i was interested in going this year as per, i never went to one before..The registration price quickly sent me back....$80 for what? and i still have to pay for hotel and transportation. Haba...What are we registering for? I was expecting more like $40 or $50 but thats not what i got. I know some of you may think Im cheap..wurrefa i dont care...Try living in my shoes for one day ....broke college student with a part-time job with bills to pay each month and see how hard it is to just let $80 go like that..pschewwwwwwwwwwwwww. I really want to go though but i was talking to one of my friends today and she was telling me not to bother cuz its a waste of time. So now im kinda confused..If you've been to one in the last couple of years, i need ur opinion...Should i close my eyes, soak garri for a week and just go or should i forget it like my friend suggested?? U guys berra respond..Ok im just kidding but im serious..lol


Anyway guys, hope ou all have a wonderful week and i hope to read about it on your blogs..Adios....

Blah Monday

Hey guys, hope u r all having a wonderful start of the week.
Today has proven to be very nice
The sun is out, the weather is fabulous..68 degrees to be exact
I have a lot to be thankful for.
I traveled this weekend and God granted me journey mercies back and forth. despite the effort of the enemy to end my life.
Been reading a couple of blogs today and they are all so uplifting and inspirational
But despite all these, I feel a sense of sadness inside of me..
Im just going through the day and im not quite feeling the same
I cant seem to figure out why i feel this way
but one thing i know for sure is that the one person i really want to talk to isnt responding to me
i dont know if i should keep at this relationship or just let it go
A part of me is ready to just say forget it but another part is thinking maybe things will get better
But i hate the feeling of being ignored
I guess i just want to know what went wrong..I need closure
Maybe if i get closure i would let go..I've never stressed a relationship this much before and i dont know why i care so much..
When ppl have stopped talking to me in the past, I was able to let go preety quickly but for some reason, i cant seem to let this go..Its been about 6 weeks and im still hurting..
I thought i was doing fine until i had a dream last nite and it has completely taken over my thoughts today
I just need one conversation and i'll be fine
Or maybe i just need to pray to get over this

Updates

I am so mad right now..I just wrote a long ass post and the stupid thing didn't post .pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwww..Rubbish.. I am now blogging about somehing else cuz that story was long and i dont have time to sit and write it again. Maybe some other day...Im so mad mehn.....Stupid blogger oshi....pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Anywayz jare my people, I have been so busy lately. I have a million and one things to do and i dont have enough time to do it. Being a full time college student with 2 jobs is no joke mehn..Kai..
1) Being having a lot of sleepless nights with ghana must go bags under my eyes...not cool at all..The bags gotta go..Maybe next weekend i will take some nyquil and fall asleep. This weekend is outta the quesion..Too much to do, so little time.

2) My momma's bday is in about an hour (April 4th). I love my mom unconditionally. I know everyone says they love their mom but mine is just extraordinary. Survived cancer twice last year. Even when the doctors had written her off, she still came out stronger than ever. Went back to work less than a month afte her multiple surgeries so that her children wont have to go without. All the time she was fighing foe her life, she was still lways concerned about the welfare of her kids. My mom has sacrificed so many things for us. My mom is definitely my bestfriend. We talk about everything from school to boys and everything in between. She is one person i know i can be completely honest with and would not judge me. She offers me advice when i need it and lets me be when i need to figure out life on my own. She has always been supportive of my decisions even if they weren't always the best ones. I dont know what i would do or the type of person i would become without my mom in my life.I love you mom and i pray that God makes me half the woman you are. I pray that you reap the fruits of your labor. Love you beyond words..

3) Speaking of moms, one of my fave bloggers lost her mom, London Buki. She was a major source of strength when my mom was very sick. Reading her posts encouraged me a whole lot cuz i knew she could relate to watching your mom so sick and there is really nothing you could do but pray. I really prayed for her moma nd i believed in my heart that she was going to get better. I guess God knows best. London buki, I pray that God gives you strength during this difficult time. I pray that he becomes more than the mother in your life..God bless you.

4) I was talking to one of my friends today and she brought up the RUNAWAY BOY and ever since, i have been getting serious urges to call him. he has been on my mind heavy but i have to resist those urges. God please deliver me from tempation....

5) Is it just me or are more unqualified ppl (students, unmarried ppl, etc) having kids these days. I wonder what is goung on. Everywhere i turn someone is popping out a baby or they are about to pop. I think its in the water that they drink. I hope i dont drink that water cuz i am not ready to be someone's mother. My family was just kill me especially al those uncles and aunties. Imagine me at this age trying to decide whether to buy some pumps or diapers. I am sorry but the pumps wil win oo. I need my shoes. I am to selfish at this point. I am still trying to get enough money for just me. Imagine if i had to split it with someone else. That wont work...lai lai...

6) I have heard so much great news about Ekene Onu's The Mrs. Club, so i decided to order it on amamzon. This is big for me cuz i don't ever buy books to read. That's why i visit the ny public library for that. So hopefully i get my book in a couple of days and be a part of the fasination. I will be back to let you guys know how the story was.

Anywayz, i have to go, my hwk is calling, in fact screaming my name. Got a 9am presentation, and i have ni idea what to talk about. Got 9hrs to come up with something, otherwise my professor will give me a king-sized F. God forbid.
will be bak to update...latersz

April 1st

Hey y'all,
I know its been too long since my last post but my life is a rollercoaster ride that can't seem to stop. Ive been keeping you up with all your blogs and you guys haven't dissapointed me yet..got my daily dose of laughter
Ive been super duper busy this last couple of weeks and from the looks of it, its gonna stay that way till the end of the month.
Took an 8hr roadtrip to Maryland last weekend and it was so much fun but that ish left me more exhausted than i bargained for...never driving in the middle of the night again

Is it just me or are all these youngins looking cuter and cuter by the day?..all the cuties i've been coming across recently are youngings and I aint ready to rock the cradle..

On a sadder note, me nd my bff got into a heated argument..
she told me about some guy that she was talking to and i was happy for her until i found out that he was a soon to be baby father..I dont have a problem with ppl that date baby fathers and vice-versa but that's just something that i don't think i can deal with. Everyone got their preference, so to each his own
The thing that got me really mad about the whole situation was that he never came out and told her that he was having a baby in a couple pf months. She found out from one of his friends by accident. That just put me off right away and out up a red flag. His excuse was that he was trying to find the right time to tell him and blah blah blah. Everytime she tries to find out the situation between him and his baby mama, he gets upset and changes the topic...I keep asking her why she is dealing with him but i haven't gotten an answer yet..
The baby mama still wants her man back and is ready to fight for him. Everyone believes that him and his babymama are meant to be but he keeps denying that it's over between them. I dont believe the dude for one second and i strongly believe he is bad news especially cuz he is never upfront with her about his situation. When he is with his baby mama he lies and starts acting up.
Right now he even has his baby mama living with him claiming that he had to take her in cuz she had nowhere to go..I'm not one to get into people's business cuz i believe that only you can make the decision for yourself but i just had to confront her and lay out the cards.. As in, the signs are all there what else are you waiting for? I keep trying to tell her that he is gonna leave her out in the cold especially when he has his baby but i guess she is just being ridiculous.
I love my bestfriend and dont wanna seee her get hurt but i guess imma have to leave her alone and just be there for her when she wants me to cuz the gurl is just trying to rationalize this foolishness.

On a lighter note, Im so excited that its April already. First of all, April means that school will beover in about a month or so..Secondly, SUMMER us right around the corner. Did you hear me say SUMMER!!! I'm so excited cuz this one is gonna be like no other..Plan on having loads of fun and hitting up every naija party in America..hahahahaha..i wish. But anyways i got my vacations all planned out. Im just so excited to be ditching the winter clothes and the layers of clothing.

Anywayz im off to bed cuz im so freaking drowsy therefore this post might be a little wierd (didnt bother to read it over or nuttin). Dont worry the old me would be back before you know it. Have a great week guys...

P.S. Omosewa i haven't watched all the movies you recommended but the ones i've seen are just the best..I will get to all of them eventually and you need to update ur blog ASAP..lol

Shortchanged

Hello my people oit there, hope u guys are having a better day than i am
Why do people just like being stupid and ignorant.
I need to learn to stop being so nice to people and just be a bitch sometimes
So last week was spring break in my school and me and my roommate decided we should go to Panama City in Florida. I had the money ready and everything but the stupid roommate of mine kept procastinationg and to cut the long story short, we ended up not going. I was mad but i got over it very quickly as per i already had a Plan b anyways.

4 days before i left to go on my trip to Atlanta to visit my best friend,
My roommate came to me crying that she wanted to come with me on spring break because she didn't want to go home and her bday was that weekend and blah blah blah
Me being the nice person that i am..Chei..i dont know why am always putting other people's feeling before mine and they always end up being ungrateful
So anyways, back to my story, after she came to me and threw a pity party, i felt really bad and asked my bff if it was okay to bring a friend along, she being as nice as i am, agreed to let her come
So anyways i went to MD that weekend and we met up in ATL that following monday
Biggest Mistake of my life!!!!
Can we say this chick is a chronic complainer..chei
Everything we did to try to please her, she was just complaining..Me and my bff had plans o hit up some naija parties and do some other things but as per the girl is akata, we had to switch up the plans just to accomodate her despite the fact that she was a last minute thingy.
We went to a club and left at 1am...when the party was just begining cuz this chick was complaining that she wanted to leave so we had to leave..Mehn, i was so mad but i still try to keep the good faith..
Woke up the next day to this chick on the phone with every Tom, Dick and Harry about how nuch fun she wasn't having and this was wack, that was wack....
Mind you all week, everything we did, everywhere we went and everything we bought, me and my bff was paying for it cuz we were trying to make her feel comfortable. The gurl never once offered to pay for anything but i didnt care cuz it was wuteva
The one she come do that piss me off the most ..Thank God for Jesus oo..I kno be area girl anymore, otherwise, i fo don open her yansh on the road...
So anyway, her birthday was on saturday and we decided to take her to a party she said she wasn't going..Okay...wetin u wanna do?

SO after sitting arounfd for 5hrs tryna figure out what to do to make this chic happy, she finally decided she wanted to go to this expensive ass restaurant.. Mind you i told her dumbass before we left that their food was mega expensive, she insisted that was where she wanted to go..So we put her ass in the car ane went oo..All in the name of trying to make her feel special on her birthday...As in your bday comes once a year...
We get there and i thought we were gonna eat and have fun..WRONG!!!! Never been so wrong in my life
The waiter came and sat us down and that was when the wahala started..
Mind you, it took us about an hour and 15 minutes to find the restaurant
So we sit down and me and my bff ordered a burger....That was the cheapest thing on the menu and that crap cost $23..I never even knew a 23 dollar burger existed before that nite...
homegurl ordered a steak that was like 47 dollars and she was complaining about how expensive it was..Mind you, she was warned before hand.
It was one of those really upscale restaurants and am a firm believer of the saying that there is a time and place for everything.
This gurl was just being so loud and acting like a ghetto chick
So anyways, her steak came and she had to send it back 3 times..I am not exaggerating
There was something differnet wrong each ime they brought it back out
It was time to pay and i asked the waiter to give everybody a seperate check just in case the chick decides to do something stupid..You cant pay for your 47 dollar steak, u berra start doing the dishes cuz am not paying for her meal
I was gonna pay but after her acts of BITCHASSNESS, I decided not to
She got the check and the gurl told the waiter that it wasn't hers....MO GBE!!!!
When you were ordering 47 dollar steak and 8 dollar mashed potatoes u didn't kno abi?
After the whole foolish act, she paid for her food and the gurl didnt leave atip
Omo, i was so pissed, you order 50 something dollar worth of food and you dont leave a tip..
Its time to go back to school and our flight schedule was messed up cuz of the horrible weather
So we got a flight going to NYC and got on it and then got a rental car to drive 6hrs to Buffalo
Did this chick offer to help pay for the rental car, gas or toll..Hell nah..The stupid thing just sat there while i was dishing out money like my father owns CENTRAL BANK OF NAIJA..pschewww.

That was the worst spring break of my life..My bff don shekpe for me finish
So was i wrong to help a damsel in distress?
People lie taht kust make me want to be BITCH but i can't keep it on for too long and the i go back to being so nice but am determined to be not so nice to people any longer.
The gurl had been walking around acting like everything is all good
Everytime i see her, i just get mad all over again..ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

I'm off to watch the movie Omosewa recommended to me...Thanks jare eyan gidi..

Emotional Rollercoaster

Hello My people, sorry about not blogging for awhile
I just haven't had the motivation to sit down and start writing
I've not even being scoping other people's blogs till yesterday
Ya gurl has been going through some serious emotional roller coaster
Too much *ish(excuse my french) has been going on..Got a girl all messed up in the head
Spring Break just passed and i still feel like im waiting for spring break
I need a vacation ASAP!!!!!
So what do i have to blog about? (thinking very hard)
I wasn't gonna blog about this cuz t makes no sense to me but after reading my girl Risquediva's blog, i decided to blog about it
So there is this boy that i've been talking to for a couple of months now
Ive known him for like 4 yrs now and were attracted to each other but at the time we were both in relationships so we just stayed friends
So towards the end of last year, we kinda got closer as per we were both out of relationships and we just connected.
We talked like 5-6 times a day for hours at a time and everything was just going great
When i was going through some serious shit last year, he was there for me everystep of the way
As in the boy would even pray with me over the phone..it was pretty much clear that we were gonna end up together and we woukd have but the distance was the problem
We lived in 2 different states and i decided to wait a while since i was moving to his state in a couple of months
Long distance relationship has never really been my thing cuz i guess i have trust issues when it comes to guys.
So everything was going great or so i thought till February 13th
We were on the phone as usual talking about the day's events and we got of the phone
The next day i dodnt hear from him or nothing and i was kinda upset as per it was Valentine's day but i had to keep reminding myself that he wasn't my man and i had no legit reason to be mad..but i just couldn't help it
The following day i decided to cal him but there was no answer
I called him everyday after that and there was still no answer so i started to get worried
I was thinking of all the things that could have possibly happened to him and i was kinda scared cuz this was the longest we had gone without speaking since we got real close
Then about two weeks later, he called me during my nite class and i called him back after i got outta class and there was tsill no response
So my anxiety became anger, cuz now i knew his dumbass was alive and okay but he was just not responding to my calls and i stopped calling
Then on his birthday after some persuasion from my best friend (who also shares his birthday) i decided to wish him a happy birthday even though i personally didnt care if he was having a good birthday or not and guess what? yup you guessed right, he still didnt pick up.
At this point i was like whatever...it was hard to keep him out of my thoughts but i was determined not to go crazy of one human being.

Next morning, Im in my room blasting my music and chilling before i went to work and then my phone starts ringing...Lo and behold it was him
i had to look at my phone twice to makse sure i was seeing right
Before this, i had imagined that if he ever called me again, he was getting straight up and down cursed out
But when he called me, i was just so calm and i wasn't necessarily interested in whatever he had to say..He kept apologizing and aplogizing but i guess i wasnt prepared to deal with him
i had began to slowly and gradually erase him from my system, hence my last 2 post about men
So i had to cut him off and tell him that i would call him later
He called me that nite but i didnt pick up cuz i was doing something important; so i sent him text.
A couple of days later, i called him and he told him he was gonna call me back in 2 minutes and explain to me why he had to get off the phone
That was 11 days ago and i just feel like punching his lights out
The boy has toyed with my emotions enough and i am just done with foolishness
I officially taken his nu,ber out of my phine so that i don't get any random urges to call him or text him
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..these guys are just messing up nowadays
I think there is something in the water that they drink
My roommate too just pissed me the hell off but i will blog about that later..Sitting here and typing is not that much fum..I wish i could just talk and it would be typed up
I hope all u guys out there are having a better week than i am..Stay blessed

Random Post

Hello Guys,
I have been in a great mood all day today..I'm on cloud nine
The weather was perfect today..we had 50 degrees...that hasn't happened since like August
Everybody was in little skirts and shorts like we were in the middle of summer
But my ass had on some Jeans and a jacket cuz i aint about to get sick
Tomorrow we are going bak to snow showers nd stuff...thats definitely a bummer
Im just so happy which is kinda wierd
That fine ass Naija/Liberian boy has been running through my mind all day...hahahahahahaha
Maybe its cuz i saw him today
I know u guys told me not to get in trouble and what not
There's nothing wrong in looking and admiring abi?
It not like i showed up to his house naked or something...Im just fantasizing
The boy is just to fine...Now my roommate got a crush on him am like that's a complete NO NO
we cant all have a crush on this one guy...I met him first so they all betta back off

I am just so ready for it to be summer...No jackets or layers
I am tired of being scared to step out my door cuz its like 12 degrees and 35mph wind
I wanna travel the world, soak up in the sun, and just chill
But the only problem is MONEY!!!!
So therefore, i gotta work
I swear i wish someone could pay me to just travel

So my friend sent me this song...I mean its so razz and all
But you guys should see me just dancing my ass off
I am just in a great mood and i dunno why



Anyway i am off to go do my rounds of blog reading
DL , i hope u are reading this, if you are get off my blog and go update yours...hahahahaha..its all love
Goodnite y'all..Im about to go dream about the cutie

My long lost CRUSH

So today after being on a date with my textbook all weekend,
Your gurl got bored and decided to go visit some friends who were having a potluck dinner
So of course ur gurl was looking on point amd im glad i was cuz i was gonna just throw on some sweats.
So i get there with one of my friends and right when i walked in this boy caught my attention...this rarely happens..I mean i have seen cute boys but i dont thnk i've met one that takes my breath away
I didnt even get to see his face yet al; i saw was the back of his head
This boy was one fine piece of chocolate
And the boy turns around....my heart skipped a couple of beats...
i recognized him immediately...my long lost CRUSH

So I met this man my freshman yr of college and then he was a senior
I would never forget the first day i showed up to my American Studies class and 5 minutes into the class, this precious work of art walks in and i just couldn't keep my eyes off him
He was like 6'4'', dark, athletic (homeboy was on the basketball team), he had a face to die for
I wish i could a pic of him up or sumthin cuz am not one to go crazy over guys but i had to go crazy over this one cuz he was just all that.

After that day i met him class, i showed up to every home game cheering my new crush on like some damn groupie...Damn i was pathetic.

Anyways, I never had enuff balls to introduce myself to him and make a move...kept waiting for him but unfortunately nothing happened.
He graduated and i moved on

And then today, i just started gettting all excited like some dam 5 yr old
Even my friend was like damn who is that and i had to tell her to back off cuz he has my name written all over him.....
The boy was looking better than i had ever seen him look, yu know how some ppl's sexiness diminishes with age, his was just so much better
The boy was on his best P's
So still in the attitude of boldness...lol..I decided that i must make myself known..
I couldn't let all these hotness of mine go to waste

So while eating he came around and just started talking....i was like this must be a sign cuz the boy just reduced my workload
All the while he was talking to me i was just staring at his face especially those lips....YEPARIPA
Probably made out like 2 sentences from the whole converstaion cuz i was just daydreaming...See how this boy just turned me to a zombie
The boy was pretty cool and i just kept finding and excuse to talk to him, touch him.....hahahahahaha
As in he made a joke and i was like hahahahahahahahaha..all the while touching his chest and what not....I swear something has come over me

So i had to put my detective skills to work....I had to find out what this biy was really about
To say i was devastated would be an understatement..
Come to find out the man has a girlfriend ...Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
And he is half-Nigerian and half-Liberian...

I cant even go on *tear tear*
Sike.....Just cuz he got a girl doesn't mean i cant admire God's creation whem i see one
Just facebook requested him....keeping my fingers crossed
Ok im off to do something productive with my life

March 1st, 2008

Who can believe its March already?

I remember January 1st like it was yesterday...hahahahahaha

The weather is still sucky as usual

Its March and its stil snowing...WTH!!!

The year is just flying by...its good and bad

Good in the sense that i can't wait to get outta school

Bad in the sense that i feel like i don'y have the time to accomplish all my goals

I have so many things that i want to do and i am seriously working on them

This year has been nicknamed Two thousand and Great

So far its been great and im working very hard to make sure its greater

A lot of us young nigerians are on some serious P's this year

As in everybody is tryna do something big this year and i have to be one of them

I am so proud of the young nigerian enterpreneurs who are doing it big...Kudos to you guys.

Me and God have been dialoguing a lot lately and it feels good

I just have to get into the habit of going to church regulary again

I used to be a regular church goer but going to them naija churches completely broke my spirit mehn, so i just completely stopped going.

I started going to this akata church and they too have their own

Every word that comes out the pastor's mouth, somebody begins to catch the holy ghost

One time all the man said was open to Daniel something and then somepeople just started catching holyghost..I'm like NAWAOH

And they took like 5 offerings..they can make someone go bankrupt jo

Apart from all that, the church is pretty cool and the pastor is on fire

So i came to the conclusion that every church has their own issues, i just have to find one that suits me best..I doubt it will be a nigerian church though cuz those ppl showed me some serious pepper (will blog abt it some other day)

So my mind has been working over time..got so much to do and so little time to do it

So me and my books have been getting to know each other and it's been pretty intense

Our love making sessions is just out of this world..Been at it since 9am and we still can't get enough of each other...hahahahaha

we propabably have a couple of more hours to go before we take a break...hahahaha

OMG!!! So i am sitting here in the library right and this highly sexified boy walks in and sits a couple of tables away from me..As in the boy is hella fine.

I mean i still love my books but every now and then a gurl gotta stray and see what is out there..hahahaha..ok, i know i've completely lost my mind.

So am looking at this boy and wondering why i never saw him before. Everytime i try to steal a quick look, the boy is looking right back at me. I was gonna pull a bold move and do something crazy (following in the footsteps of my mentor DL, hahahahaha) but i realize that his gurlfriend just walked in...Mehn, Im pissed

Anyway just cuz the gurl is there does not stop me from looking, afterall I am only looking, nothing more.

The gurl is staring at her man cuz i guess she realized what was going and the boy is kinda scared to look at me cuz homegurl was just in the way..Why does he have a gurlfriend.

The gurl just keeps staring at the boy and i am still staring at the boy..what's my own. its a free country and im pleased to stare as i please.

the gurl didn't want to move cuz i guess she was scared of what might transpire if she walked away.....

Me i wasn't tryna steal her man cuz i am not a homewrecker but i just had to stare at that fine man cuz he was just too irresistible. If only............

Anyway, the gurl is still watching the both of us..Homegurl needs to do some work otherwise, why did she come to thw library.

Anyway i have to go attend to Mr. Book cuz he is starting to feel a little neglected and we dont want that to happen.........

February 29th

Hey y'all hope u had a great week
Mine was on steroids; as in it was extremely busy..think i got a total of 20 hrs of sleep the entire week
So it's the end of another month...yayyyyyyyyyyyy
That means that i am one month closer to the end of the semester...BOOYAH!!!!
So the mysterious and anticipated February 29th is here
Everybody around here is going crazy
Everybody and their momma is throwing a party tonite.
As for me, i am making some serious love to my science textbooks tonight
By the end of the night, Our minds, soul and body shall become one...lol
I cannot wait for spring break where i can soak up in the sun and check out the sexy men on the beach...hahahaha..I have earned that right
OMG...I cannot wait for SUN!!!!
It has been snowing like crazy in this stupid place
Everywhere u turn its snowing
I need some SUNLIGHT!!!!!
I am glad abaout this past month and I am glad it's over
I learnt a lot about myself this month
God is just starting with me and I am completely trusting him
I cant wait for March cuz its only gonna get better
Anyway, Im not in the blogging spirit right now...I am tres tired
I am off to take a nap so that i can be very prepared for our love making session tonite