U guys are the best

TGIF.....This week started out kinda slow but im glad its over...
This is post is for all of you who responded to my last post to check up on me and what not
U guys rock and i love y'all..mwahhhhhhhhhhh
After reading your comments...i couldn't stay mad for longer
You sure know how to lift a sister's spirits up.
So a big thank you shout out goes to u guys..
Anyway my car is still not fixed yet but after putting much pressure on the dealer, they are sending me another key...So hopefully i get it tomorrow...

I was able to do my paper over and hand it in time..Just got the paper back and i definitely got an A..
Never knew that i had mastered the art of BSing...Cuz thats what i did but i guess it paid of in the end...
I have so much work to do so Im gonna catch up on it this weekend...
School is over in 2 weeks...Yes 2 weeks....Im so excited...

You guys remember my last post on the RUNAWAY BOY, anyway the stupendous element(lol) called me yesterday talking about he has been going through midlife crisis and what not...I just wasn't interested in whatever he had to say so i told him to get his life in order and call me back...Im so over him at this point and i'm happy about that. I do not need unecessary stress at this point in my life.. Afterall, my father did not kill my mother abi?

So i was on facebook yesterday and i got an invitation to join a group..So before joining the group i decided to take a look at it cuz the title of the group peaked my interest...Usually i dont joing groups cuz they r pointless....
Anyway it was this stupid naija man...mind u when i say man i mean close to 3o..grown ass man still behaving foolishly...thats just up and down sad..Anyway back to what i saw..
The purpose of the group was to find a wife...A wife on facebook?
The idiot had the nerve to have requirements...
She must have a degree in the health profession, preferably a nurse or something like that
She must know how to cook most of the yoruba meals cuz that's all eats..
Must be willing to have at least 4 kids....You see that this idiot don kolo...
he had other requirements but those are the ones that stuck out to me...and by the way she must be yoruba cuz his family wont tolerate anything else...to make matters worse the idiot put his phone number and asked interested applicants to apply...the fool said applicants like this is some job application....nonsense
I just find it very strange that in this day and age some ppl still think like this....
And as it gotten that bad that you have to go online to find a partner? ppl are wierd sha
One of my family friend in naija recently got in touch with me via facebook and we started chatting in IM..the dodoyo asked me to hook him up with one of my friends and im like my friends dont do across the ocean relationships but he kept pestering me and i was like ok just to get him off my back. 2 days later he sends me a message asking me to make sure that the girl i hook him up with has a big butt...that statement just sent me thru the roof..like he cannot be serious..so i had to tell him off and he had the nerve to get mad...Who cares??? U do not affect my life..Anyway i had to block the idiot...abi wetin concern(naija accent) agbero wit overload..pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...

Anywayz, my beautiful bloggers i hope u guys have a wonderful weekend..If u have nice weather in ur city then go out and do something fun wit ur friends...Im off to read other people's blogs........

Not my day

hey guys,,
Right now, i just feel like crawling up under a rock because everything that could possibly gpo wrong with one person in one day has gone wrong..Im trying really hard not to use the word depressed but Im not too far from it. i feel like this is some kind of bad dream and i need to wake up...I hope this is a bad dream...
I do not do well at all under pressure..in fact, i hate the feeling i get when i am stressed out..
I start getting really overwhelmed and all forms of my sanity just disappear..
People who saw me today probably think someone died cuz i was just so out of it..
Going to class today was just a waste of time cuz i have no idea what happened in any of my classes
I am trying to stay away from people cuz i dont want to snap on anybody before they call the Mental Hospital on my behalf..Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
The crazy thing about me though us that when one thing goes wrong, everything begins to crumble apart
I can deal with one thing, but once a series of unfortunate events begin to take place, i get so overwhelmed and i lose control..............

so what exactly happened?

I woke up this morning and got ready for work only to get to my car and discover that the remote for my car alarm wasnt working, that was the beginning of my problems..I tried opening the car with my keys and the stupid alrm went off for like 5 minutes...Put the key in the ignition and the car wouldnt come on..at this point, im laughing cuz its funny but i later realized that this was in no way a joke. I called the dealer and they told me i had to mail in the warranty papers with the car remote for a replacement. (why do i need to mail the warranty papers, shouldn't this bastards have the thing in heir computer). So thats where the problem lies, I have no clue where the warranty papers are..Their somewhere in my house 6 hrs away... Anyway, I call my job and tell them i will not make it to work cuz i have a family emergency and my boss was pretty cool about it...At this point, im like going crazy tearing my apartment apart cuz i need to be able to drive my car to work and run other errands..So now im basically carless while my car sits in front of my apartment..*tear tear*

Its time to go to class and i had a paper to hand in, so i try to print it out.Onlhy problem is that the paper is nowhere to be found..It disappeared, vanished, grew wings...What the hell is going on? i am sitting at my computer for about 45 minutes trying to find this paper but no luck..im sitting at my computer crying my eyes out and in the process my contacts fall out...shit..that was my last pair too, i was supposed to go pick up my prescription on wednesday..Anyway i took out the other one and put on my glasses. I get to class to tell my professor about my sad situation with my tear stained eyes practically begging for an extension...She gave me till tomorrow at 4pm...i guess im gonna have a sleepless night while trying to write the 8pg paper over..

In the process of calling everyone i know to help me with my car situation, my phone dies, so i try to charge my phone but there is yet another problem..my phone isnt charging, the charger is broken..At this point, Im oh so confused cuz just a couple of hrs ago, the charger was working fine so what went wrong?? Who did i offend? Abeg please leave me now..Anyway, I call one of my friends up and she lets me borrow her charger...All the ppl i called began to call bak nd text back but nobody is offering me any advice that will work concerning my car and i'm getting annoyed..If you dont have a solution pls dont disturb my life with unecessary conversation. I kno i'm being mean but im just overwhelmed and i need a solution

Right now, im supposed to be in class but i just dont have the energy or strength to be around ppl. I need amiracle at this point and if one more thing goes wrong, i dont know what im gonna do

Call it what you want

Hello my people, hope u guys had a great weekend and are ready to start this new week.
Anyway my week was a very interesting one and this weekend that i looked forward to is about to be over..
So anyway , i have joined the bandwagon of bloggers who started working out and i started going to the gym on Monday..If someone had told me that i would have lasted this long, i would have smacked them...Ive been going everyday ( I said everyday not every other day oo) for 2hrs..I have never been at the gum for more than 30 minutes at one time but this week i was there for 2hrs or more everyday..How is this possible? First of all, the cardio equipments in the gym have a TV connected to it..So while i'm on the treadmill, im also watching my shows which makes me stay on longer cuz i like to watch the whole show...its a win win situation...So after walking/running for an hr, i start doing abs and arm exercise and my partner is a certified beast...The girl does not understand the word STOP..she just keeps pushing and pushing..I know thats what i need but damn, can she cut me some slack, im a beginner...but now im starting to enjpy it..I cant wait to start seeing results. Hopefully i stick to it

So school is over in about 2 weeks..Thank God...I cant wait to get out of school and start working full time cuz being broke is no fun at all mehn...Seeing all those nice things in the stores and all i can do is window shop...That is not good for business

For some reason, i feel like partying...Not a club party ooo but one of those naija boogey down wedding party..Maybe when school is over, I will go back to Omosewa's old posts and see who is gettinbg married in my area and just crash their wedding. It's better to go to one of those parties where nobody knows me so that i can freely misbehave and not worry about all those uncles and aunties watching me...Sounds like a plan to me..

Before i forget, i was just on the naija reunion website www.nrconline.com cuz i was interested in going this year as per, i never went to one before..The registration price quickly sent me back....$80 for what? and i still have to pay for hotel and transportation. Haba...What are we registering for? I was expecting more like $40 or $50 but thats not what i got. I know some of you may think Im cheap..wurrefa i dont care...Try living in my shoes for one day ....broke college student with a part-time job with bills to pay each month and see how hard it is to just let $80 go like that..pschewwwwwwwwwwwwww. I really want to go though but i was talking to one of my friends today and she was telling me not to bother cuz its a waste of time. So now im kinda confused..If you've been to one in the last couple of years, i need ur opinion...Should i close my eyes, soak garri for a week and just go or should i forget it like my friend suggested?? U guys berra respond..Ok im just kidding but im serious..lol


Anyway guys, hope ou all have a wonderful week and i hope to read about it on your blogs..Adios....

Blah Monday

Hey guys, hope u r all having a wonderful start of the week.
Today has proven to be very nice
The sun is out, the weather is fabulous..68 degrees to be exact
I have a lot to be thankful for.
I traveled this weekend and God granted me journey mercies back and forth. despite the effort of the enemy to end my life.
Been reading a couple of blogs today and they are all so uplifting and inspirational
But despite all these, I feel a sense of sadness inside of me..
Im just going through the day and im not quite feeling the same
I cant seem to figure out why i feel this way
but one thing i know for sure is that the one person i really want to talk to isnt responding to me
i dont know if i should keep at this relationship or just let it go
A part of me is ready to just say forget it but another part is thinking maybe things will get better
But i hate the feeling of being ignored
I guess i just want to know what went wrong..I need closure
Maybe if i get closure i would let go..I've never stressed a relationship this much before and i dont know why i care so much..
When ppl have stopped talking to me in the past, I was able to let go preety quickly but for some reason, i cant seem to let this go..Its been about 6 weeks and im still hurting..
I thought i was doing fine until i had a dream last nite and it has completely taken over my thoughts today
I just need one conversation and i'll be fine
Or maybe i just need to pray to get over this

Updates

I am so mad right now..I just wrote a long ass post and the stupid thing didn't post .pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwww..Rubbish.. I am now blogging about somehing else cuz that story was long and i dont have time to sit and write it again. Maybe some other day...Im so mad mehn.....Stupid blogger oshi....pschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Anywayz jare my people, I have been so busy lately. I have a million and one things to do and i dont have enough time to do it. Being a full time college student with 2 jobs is no joke mehn..Kai..
1) Being having a lot of sleepless nights with ghana must go bags under my eyes...not cool at all..The bags gotta go..Maybe next weekend i will take some nyquil and fall asleep. This weekend is outta the quesion..Too much to do, so little time.

2) My momma's bday is in about an hour (April 4th). I love my mom unconditionally. I know everyone says they love their mom but mine is just extraordinary. Survived cancer twice last year. Even when the doctors had written her off, she still came out stronger than ever. Went back to work less than a month afte her multiple surgeries so that her children wont have to go without. All the time she was fighing foe her life, she was still lways concerned about the welfare of her kids. My mom has sacrificed so many things for us. My mom is definitely my bestfriend. We talk about everything from school to boys and everything in between. She is one person i know i can be completely honest with and would not judge me. She offers me advice when i need it and lets me be when i need to figure out life on my own. She has always been supportive of my decisions even if they weren't always the best ones. I dont know what i would do or the type of person i would become without my mom in my life.I love you mom and i pray that God makes me half the woman you are. I pray that you reap the fruits of your labor. Love you beyond words..

3) Speaking of moms, one of my fave bloggers lost her mom, London Buki. She was a major source of strength when my mom was very sick. Reading her posts encouraged me a whole lot cuz i knew she could relate to watching your mom so sick and there is really nothing you could do but pray. I really prayed for her moma nd i believed in my heart that she was going to get better. I guess God knows best. London buki, I pray that God gives you strength during this difficult time. I pray that he becomes more than the mother in your life..God bless you.

4) I was talking to one of my friends today and she brought up the RUNAWAY BOY and ever since, i have been getting serious urges to call him. he has been on my mind heavy but i have to resist those urges. God please deliver me from tempation....

5) Is it just me or are more unqualified ppl (students, unmarried ppl, etc) having kids these days. I wonder what is goung on. Everywhere i turn someone is popping out a baby or they are about to pop. I think its in the water that they drink. I hope i dont drink that water cuz i am not ready to be someone's mother. My family was just kill me especially al those uncles and aunties. Imagine me at this age trying to decide whether to buy some pumps or diapers. I am sorry but the pumps wil win oo. I need my shoes. I am to selfish at this point. I am still trying to get enough money for just me. Imagine if i had to split it with someone else. That wont work...lai lai...

6) I have heard so much great news about Ekene Onu's The Mrs. Club, so i decided to order it on amamzon. This is big for me cuz i don't ever buy books to read. That's why i visit the ny public library for that. So hopefully i get my book in a couple of days and be a part of the fasination. I will be back to let you guys know how the story was.

Anywayz, i have to go, my hwk is calling, in fact screaming my name. Got a 9am presentation, and i have ni idea what to talk about. Got 9hrs to come up with something, otherwise my professor will give me a king-sized F. God forbid.
will be bak to update...latersz

April 1st

Hey y'all,
I know its been too long since my last post but my life is a rollercoaster ride that can't seem to stop. Ive been keeping you up with all your blogs and you guys haven't dissapointed me yet..got my daily dose of laughter
Ive been super duper busy this last couple of weeks and from the looks of it, its gonna stay that way till the end of the month.
Took an 8hr roadtrip to Maryland last weekend and it was so much fun but that ish left me more exhausted than i bargained for...never driving in the middle of the night again

Is it just me or are all these youngins looking cuter and cuter by the day?..all the cuties i've been coming across recently are youngings and I aint ready to rock the cradle..

On a sadder note, me nd my bff got into a heated argument..
she told me about some guy that she was talking to and i was happy for her until i found out that he was a soon to be baby father..I dont have a problem with ppl that date baby fathers and vice-versa but that's just something that i don't think i can deal with. Everyone got their preference, so to each his own
The thing that got me really mad about the whole situation was that he never came out and told her that he was having a baby in a couple pf months. She found out from one of his friends by accident. That just put me off right away and out up a red flag. His excuse was that he was trying to find the right time to tell him and blah blah blah. Everytime she tries to find out the situation between him and his baby mama, he gets upset and changes the topic...I keep asking her why she is dealing with him but i haven't gotten an answer yet..
The baby mama still wants her man back and is ready to fight for him. Everyone believes that him and his babymama are meant to be but he keeps denying that it's over between them. I dont believe the dude for one second and i strongly believe he is bad news especially cuz he is never upfront with her about his situation. When he is with his baby mama he lies and starts acting up.
Right now he even has his baby mama living with him claiming that he had to take her in cuz she had nowhere to go..I'm not one to get into people's business cuz i believe that only you can make the decision for yourself but i just had to confront her and lay out the cards.. As in, the signs are all there what else are you waiting for? I keep trying to tell her that he is gonna leave her out in the cold especially when he has his baby but i guess she is just being ridiculous.
I love my bestfriend and dont wanna seee her get hurt but i guess imma have to leave her alone and just be there for her when she wants me to cuz the gurl is just trying to rationalize this foolishness.

On a lighter note, Im so excited that its April already. First of all, April means that school will beover in about a month or so..Secondly, SUMMER us right around the corner. Did you hear me say SUMMER!!! I'm so excited cuz this one is gonna be like no other..Plan on having loads of fun and hitting up every naija party in America..hahahahaha..i wish. But anyways i got my vacations all planned out. Im just so excited to be ditching the winter clothes and the layers of clothing.

Anywayz im off to bed cuz im so freaking drowsy therefore this post might be a little wierd (didnt bother to read it over or nuttin). Dont worry the old me would be back before you know it. Have a great week guys...

P.S. Omosewa i haven't watched all the movies you recommended but the ones i've seen are just the best..I will get to all of them eventually and you need to update ur blog ASAP..lol