February 29th

Hey y'all hope u had a great week
Mine was on steroids; as in it was extremely busy..think i got a total of 20 hrs of sleep the entire week
So it's the end of another month...yayyyyyyyyyyyy
That means that i am one month closer to the end of the semester...BOOYAH!!!!
So the mysterious and anticipated February 29th is here
Everybody around here is going crazy
Everybody and their momma is throwing a party tonite.
As for me, i am making some serious love to my science textbooks tonight
By the end of the night, Our minds, soul and body shall become one...lol
I cannot wait for spring break where i can soak up in the sun and check out the sexy men on the beach...hahahaha..I have earned that right
OMG...I cannot wait for SUN!!!!
It has been snowing like crazy in this stupid place
Everywhere u turn its snowing
I need some SUNLIGHT!!!!!
I am glad abaout this past month and I am glad it's over
I learnt a lot about myself this month
God is just starting with me and I am completely trusting him
I cant wait for March cuz its only gonna get better
Anyway, Im not in the blogging spirit right now...I am tres tired
I am off to take a nap so that i can be very prepared for our love making session tonite

Memory Loss

Mehn, i never wrote so much papers at the same time in my life.. 4 papers all due this week
Just finished writing the last one an hr ago..
Alll those research and big ass books have left my head pounding...hahahahaha..ok not funny
I know i said i had something to blog about
and i bet it was something important too
but for some reason i just can't remember
This is so wired cuz i feel like i should remember and im getting pissed off cuz i dont..arghhhhhh
Imagine a whole me suffering from memory loss...not good at all at all...lol
maybe i need a goodnite rest(sike) and ill probably remember tomorrow
Chai...and i thought i had some serious gist for u guys oooo
Make una no vex..Ill make sure i remember
Anyway sha Im off to go read this stupid book for my class 2morrow

Writer's block

Its saturday morning and i still don't have a paper done
Matter of fact, i don't even have a paragraph....hahahahahaha
ok its not funny so i better get to writing cuz i got like 2 more papers to write
I have something to blog about but i'll wait till im done with my papers maybe that will give me some motivation to finish up and get on with my life
I really dont feel like writing this paper but i have to cuz this ish is due first thing monday morning
I swear, procastination is a disease
Alrite im off to go write this paper cuz im so tempted to blog write now and im sure or at least i hope y'all dont want me to come back later and blog about the big fat "F" my professor gave me
Ok...seriously im gone...hahahahahahahahaha

What exactly is LOVE????

How are you guys doing? Hope ur week wasn't too bad
Mine was mega busy and this weekend isn't gonna be a break
Anyway i decided to share something that one of my friends sent to me on Valentine's day
Been meaning to post it but i haven't had the time to sit down and write it
I know this is kinda long but take the time out to read
This boy is such a great writer.. Hope u enjoy

What is Love?
Love is a word to which words can't describe.
Love, yes at first glance is a noun but Love at full capacity must be a verb,
Much more than a four letter word. Love is an action word
Love is a free gift composed of seconds that lasts forever
Love is the freedom to breathe in a world clouded with fears
Is love a feeling? Is Love sexual? what exactly is Love? How does one recognize it when they see it? These are questions that i ask myself.
Love has many obstacles and levels
What determines the outcome of Love is how bad one really wants to be in Love
Why fall in Love when you can stand in it
Love is beyond physical attraction , past sexual satisfaction
Love is more than casual conversation. Love is intimacy everlasting.
How does one say that they are in love and they decide to take a break? How can one give up when they claim that they are in Love?
How does one cheat, or remain untruthful?
Love is not only spoken but a manifested action, better yet put into action.
Love is an appreciation of affection towards a person.
Love is an inner feeling of deep attachment
Love is an undeniable oneness
Love is warm when the world is cold
Love is an enduring emotion not meant for children
If you say you love me, don't love me with words, Love me with actions
To love is to love unashamed.
I am talking about the kind of love between a man and a woman
Love is a divine devotion of intense reciprocation
Love must be a reflected reflection
Love is a word to which words can't describe
Love is a fulfillment of an eternal everlasting oath
Love is simple, yes simple and many men don't understand that it's the simple things that matter most.
Love is a prayer, Love is a smile, Love is a soft voice
Love is slow to anger, Love is a motivator, Love is an encourager
Love is a kiss, Love is a whisper in the cool of the night
Love is a voice of comfort, Love is going beyond the inner court and Love is YOU!
Love resides on the street called wisdom where that streetcar named desire is parked
Wisdom does not give out parking tickets but she will tow your shit if you think you slick
Love is like a man that's faithful, yup faithful
Love is more than the money we seek, although the two make a great team
Love is two walking together
Love takes two and how can two walk together in Love unless they agree
Love is looking back at your reflection and loving the you that you see
Love is not familiar
Love is repetition like brushing your teeth
Love is letting my heart bleed through this pen as you read
Love is a word that words can't describe
Love is not easy; it does not happen overnight and does not happen in a day
Love is equal, good and bad
Love is communication, happy and sad
Love is change, joy and pain
Love is a sweet melody that requires no beat.
Love is kissing a little longer, hugging a little tighter, lasting a little longer
Love is supernatural, Love evolves through all the pains, trials, tribulations, and hurt into a garden of celebration
Love is universal and requires effort
Love does not change the appearance, it changes the inner parts of a person
Love is about loving the imperfections in each other so that the two can become a perfect one...

By: C. Counts

Hope u guys enjoyed reading as much as i did. Have a great weekend...Im off to write that 10 page papet.lol

Senator"s Son

I wasn't gonna write this but i just had to since i promised you guys a gist..
I should have posted this earlier but my week has been on steroids mehn,
I had 4 tests and like 3 papers to write...so I haven't been on here in a while.
Anyway, some guys are just funny...
So last week oo, i was on my to work minding my own business when this boy called me
Mind you, before this incident, homeboy was as nice as they come
I know am horribel at telling stories so please bare with me
So i pick up and we start talking, here's how our convo went..for blogville, we'll call him Kay
Kay: So what are you doing for spring break?
Moi: Me and my friends are going to florida
Kay: You should ditch ur friends and come hang wit me..all expense paid
Moi: lol...now what kind of friend will i be if i did that?
Kay: Your friends are always gonna be there..u can go with them some other time...its not like they gonna disappear or nothing..
Moi: Hahahahaha...so where u going?
Kay: Las Vegas..so u gonna come?
Moi: I cant...been planning this since december...maybe some other time
Kay: what if there is no next time..would you change ur mind?
Moi: Nope besides what am i gonna do in Vegas...watch naked gurls nd gamble....Florida is a better choice
Kay: (sounding very upset) that's the problem wit u naija gurls
Moi:LMAO..here we go...what did naija girls do to u this time around?
Kay: Dont worry abt it...anyway imma holla at u later.
Moi: Finish what u started? seems to me like u used to getting ur way but dat doesn't fly wit me
Kay: (very upset) Y'all is full of bullshit mehn, u complain when u don't have a man but when a good man comes around and tries to be nice..u dont know how to act
Moi: (now I'm getting upset) are you alright? I told u i already have plans, im not just gonna drop everything for u...what sky did u fall out of?
Kay: I just presented you wit an offer most girls would jump at and you acting all stuck up..You got too much pride mehn
Moi: Well am not most gurls
Kay: that's what they all say. I mean seriously, am a young good-looking man, with a job, good car, a nice apartment, no baby mama drama..you should be happy and stepping to you..
Moi: (Laughing so hard at the level of ridiculousness) are you serious right now, why are u getting all mad? how did we jump from spring break to this madness..anyway i gotta go....click.
So am at work, just laughing my ass off, as in can u believe it? i was mad at first but this fool took it to another level, i have never been on
So im at work, chatting wit my friends online, and this foolishness of a thig decides to hit me up
Kay: I hope u kno that u are very rude and that shit you just pulled as uncalled for
Moi: Pele wa wa alright( sorry, u will be ok)
Kay: i see you like pissing ppl off
Moi: what is ur point exactly? and y are u still talkin to me? didnt i just hang up on ur ass?
Kay: do u kno who i am...im willing to put myself out there for u and u are acting up
Moi: Acting up? bouy u got some serious nerve? and who the hell r u...cuz u keep saying do i know who u are? am i supposed to care?
Kay: I can take care of u, you know, i got money...
Moi: And so, sweetheart, do me a favor and go jump of a bridge
Kay: no need for all that hostility...u know my father is a senator so i can take care of u..
LMAO...(see me insult). my people, smoke was comin out of my head mehn..dat boy pissed me off....he tryna call me a golddigger? The boy had to get a taste of me
Moi: Congratulations!!!! Ur father is a senator, my grandfather is a king. I come from a long line of old money and ur stupid ass comes from stolen money..that aint nutting to be proud of..Hope ur father goes to jail for stealing naija's money then we will see how much money u gonna have then. Don't ever come at me with that level of bullshit..are u mad? who wants ur stupid money..I dont kno what kinda gurls u used to but am different..Instead of u to say that ur father is the president or a governor...u are saying senator..anybody can be a senator so dont flatter urself...Hope u get hit by a moving bus..lmao
So i blocked his ass....I kno what u guys are thinking...I know that was mean but the boy just kept pushing my buttons..Kilode? Na by force? I said i dont wanna go to Vegas and the boy just started firing me insults..
More things happened but that's just the bits and pieces i remember cuz this happened about a week ago..
I was cool until he had to mention that his father was a senator..like im supposed to be fascinated..RUBBISH...HISS
Anyway Im off to MD for the weekend..So have a great weekend guys

Happy Valentine's Day....

Happy Valentine's Day .....
Hope everyone is having a great day regardless of if you have a boo or not
I spoke to some of my friends who dont have Boyfriends and they said they are roasting...lol
As for me, roasting is not my portion..lol
Boo or no boo, I am gonna have fun today..
Go out to dinner with your friends, treat your self to something special
If you gotta order urself some damn flowers
Go ahead..You are allowed jo...lol
Relax and watch just be on ur best P..lol
Don't let one day ruin your whole mood
Don't wanna hear about anyone roasting
You don't hear guys moping around and looking all sad..so why should you?
And for those couples out there...
Have fun today, leave the kid at home and go out and have fun..
Anyway, i just thought about sharing that...
Got a plane to catch in like 4 hours.....
Hope my flight is not delayed because of all these long distance relationship ppl...hahahahahaha

Random rantings

I am just feeling one kind today jare
Noo form of motivation or anything
I feel like im getting sick...I hope not oo
I just feel like eating everything in sight...and im not even hungry..just want food...
This is not good for Operation Naija diet..
I have so much work to do but i don't feel like it..I probably should just close my eyes and start now
My apartment is looking like some serious tornado just hit it
Cuz i was looking for sometjing this morning and i just tore the whole place apart..I am embarassed cuz i like everything in place..it helps me think better
I think that's the problem..Its because my apartment is looking a hot mess
I wish i had a maid sha...
You know those naija madams that have like 5 maids and all they have to just do is speak the word and it's done...maybe i should move back to naija cuz i can't afford this american maids
Their salary would be more than your own paycheck...lol
I'm so sorry guys, my entry today has no head or tail
Mehn...i need some serious excitement..
Guys i have some serious gist but due to my mood, i cant post it now
So you have to tune in next time..lol
I seriously hate this stupid mood i found myself in....
Let me go try to either clean my apartment or sit back and watch a movie
I think I'll go clean cuz i cant't function in mess...TTYL

Sex and Relationships

Hey guys, hope you are having a better day than I am.
My day has been good so far but i just looked out my window and it is SNOWING...
And i have to be at work in a couple of hours
The thing i hate most about the snow is when i have to go brush snow off my car...I hate it
I see some people cleaning their car and making sure that there is absolutely no snow on their car
Me I don't have that kind of patience...I just make sure all the glass is fine so that i can see and Im out
I do not like snow, which is why i keep asking myself why i came to school here
But its all good because I will soon be done..

Anywayz, I have a question'
Me and one of my friends were talking about relationships and stuff like that
And the issue of sex came up
According to him, you can't be in a relationship without sex involved
I beg to differ but maybe that's just me..
So guys, how important is sex in a meaningful relationship? (and notice i said meaningful)
Do you think it can survive without sex??

I want to know what you guys think.......

Wahala Part 2

Hello guys, Hope you are having a good day out there
Mine has been the same...class till 3...home for lunch, and getting ready for my night class...arghhh

So anyways back to my Uncle Dapo's story (A.K.A. Uncle Agbaya)

So after this man asked me for my bra size, it became extremely clear that Uncle Dapo was definitely up to no good.
I called my friend and told him what had just happened, i needed someone to prove to me that i wasn't crazy or overreacting. According to my friend, it would be best if i didn't tell my parents, so as to avoid unecessary problems.
But i had to make sure i covered my butt, in case he decided to tell people that i was the one trying to destroy his marriage (A.K.A. Home wrecker)

So I called my mom (A.K.A. Ma Dukes) and tole her the whole madness that just happened and she was beyond shocked. My mom could not believe it because she trusted this man so much. So my mom told my dad and the man was furious.
Anyway, the next day Uncle Dapo had the nerve to show up to my parents house like everything was just ok. I guess he thought i wasn't going to tell my parents.

Anyways Uncle Dapo goes to naija on Christmas to join his wife.

Aunty Sade comes back in January while Uncle Dapo is still in Naija and my mom had to go pick her up from the airport. Aunty Sade starts complaining about Uncle Dapo. Basically, the whole time they were both in Naija, she rarely ever saw him. He was always GONE. Uncle Dapo's family was treating her like trash and he didn't even bother defending his wife. And then she was looking throug credit card bills and found out that he had bought a plane ticket for someone coming from ATL. Uncle Dapo denied that he knew anything about it.
So while they were gisting, my mom told Aunty Sade what her perverted husband had done to me and the lady just started crying..I felt sorry for her...

A couple of weeks later, Uncle Dapo comes back from Naija and my parents decided to go pay him a visit because my dad could not let it go.
Can u believe this man denied the whole thing? He said i was straight up lying and I should come see him myself.
That's where the see me see wahala comes in..lol... Lying ke? so i guess i just randomly woke up one morning and decided to come up with a crazy story. There is so much evidence against this man and he still had the nerve to say i was lying.....

Anyway Uncle Dapo is banned from our house and we not going near his house either.
I just feel so bad for Aunty Sade for ending up with such a loser. The woman wants to have kids so badly but it has just never worked out. Is she God that makes children? Mind you Aunty Sade has been the breadwinner in their home for the past 7 or 8 years. Uncle Dapo didn't have a job all the time they have been here and Aunty Sade is a doctor,so she makes megabucks. They've been living on her paycheck all this time. As in se has 2 houses, bought him a car, built a house for his parents in naija and sponsors his brother to school. And all of a sudden, this man gets a job last year and he grows wings overnight. It's just a sad situation

It's clear that this man is cheating because he wants a child and i hope he gets what is coming to him.

My mom has been trying to make me talk to Aunty Sade, but i just can't. Everytime, i see her or hear her name, i wil think of Uncle Dapo and i just can't handle that.

Am i wrong for making Aunty Sade guilty by association?

See me see wahala ooo

Hello blogville,
I just got off the phone with my mom a couple of minutes ago and I am too pissed off..
Let me explain my frustruation.
My story might be all over the place cuz i'm not the best story teller but hopefully you get the point.
So we have this family friend. You know those kind of people that you've known all your life they just become uncles and aunties.
For the sake of this blog, I'll call them Uncle Dapo and Aunty Sade
Anyways, Uncle Dapo and Aunty Sade have been married for about 10 years and they have no children.
Everytime Aunty Sade gets pregnant, couple of months later she has a miscarriage.
Me and Aunty Sade are pretty cool and i go to their house a lot. I 've had numerous sleepovers in their house and my friends know them as my aunt and uncle. Basically, our families are pretty tight.
Recently, Aunty sade has been telling my mom that Uncle Dapo has been acting rather funny and she felt it was because of their childlessness issues.
So anyways, Aunty Sade decides to go to Nigeria for about 2 months cuz she needed to take care of some business and get away from her stressful life.
While Aunty Sade is in Nigeria, Uncle Dapo started showing up to my house more frequently, as in my mom is always cooking so he stops by pretty often to get food and chat before he goes back to his empty house.

So i come home for thanksgiving and on thnaksgiving day we have a lot of people in my house.
Anyway Uncle Dapo shows up, and i start harassing him about how he doesn't call me or check on me and blah, blah blah ( U know one of those convos you have with your really cool uncles)
So before Uncle Dapo left my house, he told me to call him when i got back to school that weekend and i was like cool; not really paying him any attention.

That night, after most people left, Im cleaning my house and my house phone rings
Moi: Hello, who is this?
Uncle Dapo: It's me..so after all this years you still don't know my voice?
Moi: well maybe if you called me more often, i would know(lol)
Uncle D: You are not serious...anyway what are you doing?
Moi: Cleaning up the mess u guys left behind
UD: Lol...is there anybody around you?
Moi: (lying) No..what's up?
UD: Don't worry..don't forget to call me when you get to school
Moi: OK..bye.
At this point, nothing is clicking . I just thought he was just being his regular goofy self as usual.

So i get to school, and i didn't even remember to call him beacause personally, he is not on my priority list.
So he decides to call me on Monday...
UD: You know you are not serious, didn't i ask you to call me?
M: (lying) Uncle i was just about to call you
UD: wuteva, anyway wus up?
M: Nothing...so what is so important that you are wasting my daytime minutes?
UD: U are very rude sha...I want to come up to your school to visit you
M: (getting excited cuz nobody ever comes to visit me) Really? when?
UD: whenever you are not too busy because i don't want to get in the way of your academics
M: fine...I'll check my schedule and get bak to u... I gotta go..I have a class
UD:Ok...hold up a sec..don't tell anyone that im coming up there to visit you
I was gonna ask why but i just decided to let it go cuz at that point i was getting uncomfotable.

10 minutes later, this man calls me again, so i start getting this wierd feeling. He never ever calls me and then all of a sudden you are callin me multiple times in one day. So i called my BFF up and she was like next time he calls i should record the conversation.

So he calls me a 3rd time:
UD: Hello...what are you doing?
M: minding my business
UD: so have u decided when you want me to come up?
M:its up to you, whenever you feel like it, let me know
UD: How about the 19th?
M; that's fine (I knew in the back of mind, i knew that i would have left for the winter break, so if he came that would have been his problem)
UD: OK..so what do you want me to buy for you when im coming?
M: Nothing...but I'll take ur money
UD: So where am i gonna stay when i come up there? Do u have a roommate?
M: U staying overnight?? Y? and yes i have a roommate
UD: so that means you have to go find us a hotel because i don't want your roommate to see me. So that means when i get there,I'll call you and you will just come downstairs and we can go. Make sure the hotel is not too far out. And i hope that your parents don't show up that weekend. Make sure you don't tell anybody.
(At this point, Im still tryna process the madness....This is something that you watch on TV not in real life)

So i told him i had to go do something...Why did this man call me like 15 minutes later
UD: I hope i am not disturbing you but i just wanted to ask you something
M: what is it?
UD: are you sure there is nothing u want me to buy you? or do you just want to wait till i get up there so i can take you shopping?
M: Uncle dont worry about it but i have to go
UD: OK...Before you go...i hope you dont mind me asking you this question?
M: What is it?
UD: what is ur bra size?
M: (yelling) WHAT!!!!!
UD: Your cup size? you know...the size of ur breast..Im sure you know that
M: I gotta go ....so i hung up the phone

Anyway, i have to continue this story tomorrow cuz just thinking about it makes me sickkk...

ARGGGHHHHHHHHH

Hope u guys are having a better day than I am
My day is starting out rather tiring because i couldn't go to sleep last night
I was just laying in my bed but couldn't go to bed
I was up all night watching Fresh Prince (besides i've seen all the episodes)
I THINK I HAVE INSOMNIA!!!!
This sleepless night mess has been going on for a while now
And when i sleep, i only get like 5 hours
My mom told me its because i have something on my mind
But i cant seem to think of anything that will keep me up all night
I have to go see a doctor ASAP!!!!!

GO GIANTS!!!!!

Hello guys..hope ur week started out great
Mine started with my alarm clock going off like 6 times b4 i finally got out of bed
Mehn...it was tough but i had to get up
As per my teacher is no joke...

The NY Giants won the superbowl last night...That was a highlight for me
You guys should have seen me jumping, screaming and so nervous throughout the game
I am sure u guys are thinking Im some kind of football fanatic
Im so far from it...If it were basketball, then we can talk
But last night, I was so into the game and thanx to my friends i understood it a bit
Actually, football isnt as bad as it seems once u get passed all that physical abuse
I might start wacthing the games more often now

Im just so grudgy today and i dont have much to write about
Even oprah today is just boring...they talking about gastric bypasses nd obesity
Im just not interested...
Anyway i got this paper to write for my night class
Have a great week guys...

Moi...

Can it be summer again? or at least spring?
It is cold in Buffalo mehn
the other day we had wind blowing at 65mph
And my stupid school was still open
They sent out some stupid email talking about watch out for flying debris...
Can you believe that mess?
Me i took the day off oo...
I am not ready to die or get my head cut off by stuff flying over the damn place
Even parts of my roof came off..
I am so ready to be on vacation laying under a tent and sipping Margarita....lol
Me i like enjoyment ooo..lmao


Anyway, i made a mistake and went into walmart today
all dat red was just blinding
teddy bears and candy all over the place
Im just waiting till january 16th when all the candy would be on sale
Im just gonna go there and go crazy..hehehehehehe
went to the dentist and he told me i have perfect teeth
so im gonna eat candy and not feel guilty or be scared

I feel like i wanna go somehwere
Take a roadtrip somehere....I dunno where though?
Ill probably go away for valentine's weekend
Ive been getting a lot of offers so im gonna take someone up on their offer
I need some excitement in my life so im off to go find some......

Time for a change

It feels great to be back to blogville....

I've been gone for too long because i just had no motivation to blog about anything

But its February 1st which means that its a time for a fresh start

I have been battling with my personal demons but i am winning...hehehehehe



I refuse to live 08 like I lived my past years

This year just has to be DIFFERENT....for real

I am determined to make this my best yr yet...

First order if business......NETWORKING

I have to network and meet all kinds of new ppl

The problem is dat when i meet new ppl i just start acting all shy and then i don't keep in touch

But its all good cuz all dat is about to change...Amen

As in make new friends, travel,

My life is too boring jo...class, work, home...kilode?

I am too young to be letting life just pass me by oo





So my mom called me last night and said that my church has declared a one month of fast

so i decided to try it cuz what better way to pop into action than with some earth shaking prayers...hehehehehe

Day 1 was good, hopefully i can keep it up for the rest of the month

I am determined ooo

Also been hitting dat gym 3x a week

As in if i'm gonna be galavanting (new word thanx to my cuzzo...hehehe) all over the place

I need to be looking my best...abi what do u think?



I need to make some trips and visit my friends that are scattered all over the place

Guess who will be hitting NAIJA this summer...Yes, Yes, Yes, U guessed right urs truly...hehehehe

Im too excited...Ive been dreaming of what its gonna be like





Anyways I'm off..got a couple of phone calls to make...Ciao